Posted: 08 November 2011 at 1:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Dancingdoll
Well, frankly, I have to see the scene in totality to get a feel of the scene but I felt a little bad for Swamini...I agree with Beeji and Jeevika that they shld have their way too in the wedding...Its a very common mistake that happens in a wedding, the girl side thinks its her wedding and the guy side think its his wedding..Noone has the idea of ONE wedding - the Guys AND gals...The feeling of ONE doesnt exist today...and in the precap, I think they are talking about the necklace and I liked the fact tht Beeji stood to her promise...I just wish, they have told Swamini that Its her mom's piece of jewelry and hence, its Jeevika's dearest desire to don it...and then if Swamini has made the statement, then I would agree with the stiffness of the scene...
Howeevr, on the wedding dress, I would not really hold Swamini wrong becasuse unknown to the gals side, she had good intentions...she is trying to find a way so that she can decrease the financial pressure on the gal and yet maintain the Vadera house status... It is imp to maintain the status too but not put the financial burden on any side who cannot afford it...and Swamini found a mid way out...so, I kinda liked her idea but I really wanna see if Beeji told swamini about the relevance of the necklace before she put her foot down!!
I think they did tell her, well the episode is over now so it's definite that they did tell her.
Ya, Swamini is trying to help but she could have been nicer, I feel.
I mean when she said "She's our DIL now and we'll adorn her the way we want"- I couldn't really digest that- I mean c'mon- Jeevika might have some wishes too- consider her liking too- she's not your slave. :)
But I like your different take on this.
Beeji did tell Swamini about the relevance of the necklace and I expected that from the precap too- Beeji is a wise woman- I didn't expect her to say anything wothout explaining anyway!
Thanks for your reply. :)