Thanks for the colorful update Stuti.
What I liked about the first part was naitik kept speaking about akshi and saying he loves her a lot and it shows how much he loves and cares her...
Again situation and mutual understanding plays an important role in today's episode. Crying, sleep problems, decreased energy, , lack of excitement about having a baby
, lack of interest in activities, obsessive thoughts and worries, and feelings of guilt and hopelessness. Although many couples welcome a baby, parenthood can affect akshi's feelings about one another and themselves... naksh should be encouraged to share his or her joys and fears;
In reality, both spouses are stretched as they experience huge role changes to incorporate the baby into their lives. This is a time of radical role changes for both naitik and akshara.Crying won't hurt akshi's baby (unless this is something I'm unaware of...), and letting it out is much better for her own emotional state of mind than keeping it all bottled inside. As the pregnancy advances, akshi feels the insecurity of looking less attractive to naitik. Thamight be the main problem for akshi.
Naksh need to talk, but they should be sure that while akshi telling him clearly how he's making her feel that she also give him a chance to talk about how he's feeling about everything. Akshi should always remember the proverb;you can win an argument but lose a relationship. Arguments and mis understandings cannot be avoided but akshi should know the right measure of it. Just for the sake of winning an argument, she should not keep on arguing and misunderstood naitik till the opposite party naitik gives up.
This will certainly turn the relationship sour. Any loser will remember (naitik)…his defeat and will always detest even to think of the person to whom he had lost and the situation where he had to give up.At the heat of the argument, one loses control of the mind and will blurt out something that will irreversibly damage the trust and relationship between the naksh. The main key for a successful marriage is love.
Both naksh should love and respect each other Feelings tremendously. They have to nurture and take care of their marriage. Marriage is not only a physical attraction, but commitment to each other in good and bad times. Waiting for the next epi.
Edited by mini_00 - 21 October 2011 at 11:27am