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Posted: 20 October 2011 at 11:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by BhartiKhushi909


agreed yaar but she's strong from inside , although its a very big jhatka for her , she dnt show it on her face , her heart break was natural n the way she controled herself n breaks when she was alone was so natural , we usually got hurt by our loved ones n cry when we are alone 

I ditto with u there , 

Exactly,  one cry their heart out to feel better not for sympathies or weakness... 

I agree, the gal is still strong , the way she was holding on to her tears when suraj helped her in making Jelabis was Cry any other lead would have cried buckets for everything by now ... 

she had sad face in front of every one in mandir , but she never cried , she had a drop of tear when she took that water from suraj in pooja other than that the gal is holding herself very well... 


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Posted: 20 October 2011 at 11:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by JustJ

Originally posted by anushini

yeah..Her intro to this serial itself said her character to be bold..i too thought she will be coming like this character throughout this serial..
but after marriage..she entirely changed..she can't even express her dreams and her wishes to suraj..and too she was talking with herself only and recollecting those moments with her parents.Confused
she became a typical married girl after her married life..Embarrassed
what ever happens her silence only speakin there..Confused

Even bold gals  change after marriage , thats wat exactly they are showing , bold gals cannot stay strong after marriage , they need support to make sure they are right, when ur husband doesnt support u , it wont take long to see lots of fights, misunderstandings in wedding , a name sake couple , who live together donno for wat ... 

Just one signal from suraj is all she need, the gal will show signs of being old self 
hmm.hope soon sandhya will get a strong signal from suraj.Smile.
before that she have to accept him for what he is...
she loved her dream to become an IPS,so only she can't take these easy in her life..but now she is having lovable husbandEmbarrassed by her side not a dream.sure that dream to be fulfilled her life by a lovable suraj.Embarrassed.let see...Confused


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Posted: 20 October 2011 at 12:06pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by BhartiKhushi909

Originally posted by JustJ

Yes Anu, she didnot, but the moment her marriage was fixed , the bold and courage gal vanished and out came the traditional one ... I am not mocking here , its not wrong to be traditional ... thats wat happens to most gals, marriage not only changes their nature but their personalities too 

agreed yaar but she's strong from inside , although its a very big jhatka for her , she dnt show it on her face , her heart break was natural n the way she controled herself n breaks when she was alone was so natural , we usually got hurt by our loved ones n cry when we are alone 
 
Yes.  Sandhya should be appreciated.  She is really strong from inside.  That whole day was horrible.  First, accused of theft, then she gets a clue of her being less educated, then Suraj's profession and education, tearing of her dreams, her brother's lies, her confrontation within herself in the form of dream...she controlled herself and being unable to hold onto everything, comes out and cries her heart out lonely.  The whole Rathi family has no clue of what this girl is going through.

no one has a fault accept ankur n krishna for thr selfishness thy dnt even think abt the future of surya Cry

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Posted: 20 October 2011 at 12:08pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by JustJ

Originally posted by BhartiKhushi909


agreed yaar but she's strong from inside , although its a very big jhatka for her , she dnt show it on her face , her heart break was natural n the way she controled herself n breaks when she was alone was so natural , we usually got hurt by our loved ones n cry when we are alone 

I ditto with u there , 

Exactly,  one cry their heart out to feel better not for sympathies or weakness... 

I agree, the gal is still strong , the way she was holding on to her tears when suraj helped her in making Jelabis was Cry any other lead would have cried buckets for everything by now ... 

she had sad face in front of every one in mandir , but she never cried , she had a drop of tear when she took that water from suraj in pooja other than that the gal is holding herself very well... 



its her inner powere , which is asking her to become a IPS earlier n now this power controlling her, although after marriage usually girls study n work if hy want to n if inlwas r educated but at her part no one even understand wat education is Cry

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Posted: 20 October 2011 at 12:13pm | IP Logged
why talk about others 

My elder got married when she was 18yrs old , BIL allowed her to study as she dreamed to be a DOC, know she isnt working after working for few months since he dont like it , but seeing her suffer he is trying to think 

My second sis , finished her Grad only ... my jiju encourages her to study further and at same times guides her in choosing any career , she does this trail and error stuff LOL... yet he supports her ... 

contrasting families 

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Posted: 20 October 2011 at 12:35pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by JustJ

why talk about others 

My elder got married when she was 18yrs old , BIL allowed her to study as she dreamed to be a DOC, know she isnt working after working for few months since he dont like it , but seeing her suffer he is trying to think 

My second sis , finished her Grad only ... my jiju encourages her to study further and at same times guides her in choosing any career , she does this trail and error stuff LOL... yet he supports her ... 

contrasting families 

so wat thy r showing is not wrong it normally happens in families , though i hv not encounter it personally but my frnd got married at an early age n now she's studying with me , thats other thing her inlaws dnt support her as she want to be a lawyer , so she got divorce n her family supports her , so its reality either take a step or thoda adjust sabko karna hota hai yaar

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Posted: 20 October 2011 at 8:08pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by JustJ

My Dear DABH-Ians, 

I liked today's episode too. excluding that Tu  Chor  Tho Mai Bhi Chor Drama LOL

Sandhya was able to remove all her Mothers Seekh given to her by bhabi , in a way to say she is not going to do it , but being a gal she just couldnt remove that Mangalsutra even if she wanted to she just couldn't . 

Its Easy to Say , I will Break Marriage if my partner is not my type or so , but very hard to do in reality , not many have that courage to do ... A single women is hard to survive they have to face lot of hell, 

Sandhya though removed every thing in her state just wasnt able to , she couldnt bring herself to do it , and they showed it brilliantly as anklets , as they stop many gals from breaking their marriage and ultimately they have to give in and compromise with everything for ever ...

The way she said , Tu Tho Jaa, was heart breaking CryCry

Her Out burst was more heart breaking ... 

Good Job Deepz ...

Love 



Respect (and in some measure fear) for tradition is instilled in the very fabric of Indian women...especially when it comes to Marriage!
 
A young girl's heart is like a mirror, it will reflect any image that comes in front of her; but a married woman's heart is like that of a portrait...it will have just one painting on it.
 
Similarly for Sandhya, in her sub-concious, she knows that she cannot bring herself to break her marriage, however forced it might have been.
 
I am not sure if its because of a lack of courage...or more to do with the way, Indian women are raised up! I would say, a combination of both!
 
The show is getting better and better everyday and Deepika is turning out to be a very fine performer!

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Posted: 22 October 2011 at 7:26pm | IP Logged
"Tu Toh Jaa" was the best dialogue of SandhyaClapClap.. omgShocked.. i literally cried at that dialogueCry.. that showed us how helpless sandhya isCryCry.. n did you notice that even she had freed the cow.. it didnt leaveDisapprove... that shows us how hard is it to leaveOuch.. heart breakingBroken Heart

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