Originally posted by JustJ
Well , i didnot like one dialogue of sandhya ...
Marriage happens btw ppl whose thinking is same, dreams are same ...
But contrasting peoples lifes are more interesting even with different dreams and thinking unless they dont rub that on each other ...as when one has difference in opinions they get to see things from another angle other than their owns, ... The ones who thinks the same are boring as they dont see the world or things from different sides and are stuck with one opinion ... and its more like yes Sir , I agree with each other ... same thinking for 24/7 is never a good option
Couples are those who understand each other, respect each others opinions even after having differences, standing with one another, holding on to each others respects ...
Exactly my POV yaar
...i mean just because two ppl have different dreams and opinions on some things
does not mean that they cant build a solid marriage
...infact in these marriages
ppl tend to get more accomoadating
since they see the world from thier own as well as each other point of views
...i have seeen such marriages succeed
...Sandhya married on her own will.
...i know she was pressurised
but she could have walked out
and her brother couldnt have done anything
...she is an adult.
...i agree the shock that Sooraj is a halwai is big for her
and her getting doubts
is also ok
but she should now start thinking logically
and should confess her dreams to Sooraj
...she should confide in him rather than looking down on him
which i think she did today
...and secondly that dream bit was like
WTH for me
...i mean Sandhya dreams to be an IPS officer
looks down at ppl who dont use dustbins regularly
...but runs away the moment she is called a thief
...makes similar faces in all situations
and she Dreams of answering back wen a finger is pointed at her parents
...her dream of becoming an IPS
is like a child's dream.
...a child who says i will become this and that
wen i grow up but the moment he faces even a bit of difficulty the dream withers
...and secondly even Sooraj
needs to prove a lot
...if he expects Sandhya to respect
, love and take care of his physcho family
then he should give the same consideration to Sandhya as well
otherwise he will look like a hypocrite
and a spineless person.
Edited by sameera_ori - 19 October 2011 at 1:03pm