kya anmol sa ! sirf like karke chor dia ye post! no support for jaggu dada !
since I have become the :"devil's advocate" in this post - I would like to state a few more points in favor of the devil ie. our Jaggu dada!
Even if we see it from the legal point of view, then government of India has allowed people to file for divorce withing two years of attaining adulthood. So by 20, one has to decide whether one wants to stay with childhood bride/ groom. Why is government of India giving two years time? Why not it's saying that one has to decide first whether to continue the marriage or not at 18? I am not any legal expert, but what as a layperson I can understand is that government is giving time to the couples to make the decision after knowing each other. After being legally adult, there is no problem if a couple stays together. So two years is enough to decide whether they can live together or not.
On the other hand, if we look at practically, couples, bound in child marriage, start staying together since the age of 14-15 which means that even if one wants to nullify the child marriage, both parties get the time to know each other for some years.
By that logic, Jaggu dada has started staying with A at 18 and by 20 our Jaggu dada had decided that G is his choice. Even if we say that J has accepted the marriage done in childhood truth is A and J did not really know each other - J has changed a lot in his mentality which is very natural.
A has accpeted him as she could not even think of abandoning J but is it necessary that J has to accept her too even though there there is so little compatibility?
When the government is giving time to the couples to know each other before deciding, then what's the problem if J decided to terminate his relationship with A after having a relationship with her???
Personally, I think someone's real character comes out when he /she comes out of the shelter of parents and start dealing with the world on their own. It was then we become practical and know what we really want in life, what we can really do in life. That's why J, when started living in Mumbai independently, he became clear about his wishes and ambitions which again is very natural.
Edited by doyelpakhi - 17 October 2011 at 10:57am