Originally posted by JustJ
actually i wont blame bhaboo;s thinking ,. some where she is right ,
we are living in a society where once kids get married they want to get separated though some times its Male;s idea, but most of the time its bahu stuff too
Waise its not wrong to support ur wife , but at same time , it depends on , on wat matter he is supporting her and for not all childish acts, Suraj clearly said to ankur , he would support sandhya when she is RIGHT
I totally agree. A husband and wife should support each other because of right, not because one of them wants a demonstration of how much love husband/wife has for each other above everyone else. A parents love is different from the love a husband and wife have for each other and truly there should never be any complaints about it. Problem happens because of the culture/society people come from. In Asian culture it is common for Saas and bahu's to have this tug of war with the son/husband in the middle, it stems from insecurity and a parent's dependence on the son to look after them in their old age and off course the inevitable what would people think if my son moves away from me?!
Sandhya looks and acts mature, so I doubt she would play these games and so I think because it is a RIGHT to have an education, to fulfil one's dream, Suraj would support her and this is where he and his mother will clash. However, we have seen his softy softy approach so he will think carefully about it.
I only hope it does not turn into a saas-bahu drama!