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Trophy Piece; Thy Name Sandhya

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Posted: 07 October 2011 at 3:31am | IP Logged


Heyy Friends,

Y'days episode dealt with Muh Dikhayi ..ordinarily a time of getting to know a new and shy  Bahu better ..but it turned into ordeal for Sandhya ...

Before that , a word of appreciation for Bhabho, ..She is harsh, she is curt, she  has no nonsense air but underneath that sandy grains of Rajasthan, there is a pure vein of water..an ability  for compassion,understanding and empathy ...

now the Muh Dikhayi ceremony.. I could completely understand  Bhabho's overwhelming urge to parade her new DIL.. for this were the women who laughed at her, who ridiculed her, who taunted her !! iit must have been a crushing blow for this proud woman and oh!! how she would love to see them rubbing their noses on earth   and she did do this y'day by asking the obnoxious women to bless Sandhya first and pointedly added "from Heart " ...Just loved that scene ...I could relish Bhabho's glee on seeing the squirming neighbors nevertheless when  one saw it from Sandhya's POv ..One could feel so sorry for her..

Here is a girl, who has lost her parents who were her backbone  and she is not even given proper grieving time to come to terms [ although there can never be a set time for it] ..She is catapulted into a joyous event  that too her own marriage ..But  fate  has played its tricks and she enters a home where people are so different that they might have plopped out from some other planet ..There is no meeting point for this two families , one is steeped in education and liberalness while the other is feudal and gives paramount importance to rituals  and she is like a fish out of waters .. She  is unable to adjust nor is given time to adjust  but instead is paraded like a trophy .. She can not narrate her discomfort to her hubby since there is still no meeting of mind or hearts  and the only person who could help her is rendered mute cos Sandhya now belongs to  Rathi's and has to follow their tradition ..


Overall, I felt that y'day Muh Dikhayi was done from Sandhya's angle hence the happiness  and Pride of Bhabho appeared  to a gloating triumph..

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Posted: 07 October 2011 at 3:36am | IP Logged
Big smile  Your analysis of the episode from Sandhya's standpoint is nice
 
Tanthya, bhabho's "Dil Se" was very nice.  Is it necessary to feed the new couple that much sweets?


Edited by b2011 - 07 October 2011 at 3:51am

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Posted: 07 October 2011 at 3:38am | IP Logged
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Sandhya is more like a trophy to Bhabho rather than a human being...The way she was showcased in front of everyone present must be intimidating to anyone...especially a new person in a new environment...
Also Bhabho ordering her to raise her eyes and speak out...any person in her position(Sandhya's) would definitely freak out...

But looking from Bhabho's point of view...she was humiliated and ridiculed earlier in public.That wound is fresh and throwing out a challenge & fulfilling it...she feels on top of the world...

Awesome postBig smileClap



Edited by ssweety007 - 07 October 2011 at 4:12am

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Posted: 07 October 2011 at 3:45am | IP Logged
Very well said!

I really liked it how you analysed it from both angles.

Poor girl though man, she can't even get a word in...she's pretty scared of Bhabho...her "bhaboji" when Bhabho barges in was very well done.

The actress who plays Sandhya has definitely improved a lot in terms of her acting abilities.

Just so sad that SurYa won't get a chance to go on a honeymoon where they can get to know each other better. Damn it.

Haiye...how CUTE is he though?? Marjawaan gud khaake types LOL

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Posted: 07 October 2011 at 3:47am | IP Logged
nice post,

padh ke achha laga

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Posted: 07 October 2011 at 4:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by b2011

Big smile  Your analysis of the episode from Sandhya's standpoint is nice
 
Tanthya, bhabho's "Dil Se" was very nice.  Is it necessary to feed the new couple that much sweets?



Thank You, Bharathi Big smile

Haina, even i liked it and the way she utters it ...I don't have any idea, I have not attended Rajasthani wedding ..But I Surely would have died  had I been forced to eat so many sweets at one go..LOLLOL

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Posted: 07 October 2011 at 4:54am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tanthya

Originally posted by b2011

Big smile  Your analysis of the episode from Sandhya's standpoint is nice
 
Tanthya, bhabho's "Dil Se" was very nice.  Is it necessary to feed the new couple that much sweets?



Thank You, Bharathi Big smile

Haina, even i liked it and the way she utters it ...I don't have any idea, I have not attended Rajasthani wedding ..But I Surely would have died  had I been forced to eat so many sweets at one go..LOLLOL

i was thinking OhGod plz help her , help her , wat if , if she starts vomitingDead

beautifuly described dear

well i think bhabho is not heartless n its proved to me nowEmbarrassed

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Posted: 07 October 2011 at 5:21am | IP Logged
lovely one Sathya , really liked reading it ... 

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