Originally posted by ankit111i know Anandi behaviour is irritating. the main reason of her this irritating behaviour is her confusion abt Jogia. she accept or not or even if she try to hide it but she still love Jogia and waiting her return (this is most irritating part of her behaviour). apart from Jogia part her behaviour is absolutely normal and human. she do social work, she fight against Dhongi baba. she dont behave like dumb and coward outside haweli. but she is not coming out from his thinking abt haweli and Jogia and there her behaviour is not like normal girl. she contradict hersel. she say she hs accepted JAGO relation, but still it hurt whn she hear abt the pregnancy of Jogia. here we can criticize her behaviour.
but even after tht, can or sd we hate her??her behaviour dont cause problem anyone but herself. she is not forcing herself on Jogia, but just waiting. she is not shouting on anyone or creating hysteric. she is not abusing Gouri for her antics and avoiding confrontation. even most of us criticize her, but i dont think most of us hate her. if we wish tht she sd move on and not suffer, it say itself tht we dont hate her, but just irritated with her self sacrificing nature and wish her better life.
in opposite, Gauri is creating scenes, she is not only living her own life but interfaring in Anandi life. she seek reason to fight, although her own position is very week and she is responsible herself for it, but blame everyone. and most of us dont want tht she live happily after creating problem in others life. so she is irritating as well as negative and most of us hate her for her own doing.
bang on...I don't hate anandi, but now I am so bored with her that even when gauri shouts at her or DS shouts I don't feel bad for anandi. I am just bored. All I think is ok now what next...
I agree that Anandi does not harm others. But the amount of harm she does to herself is painful to watch...to add to it the adult education and dongi baba track was not so gripping, atleast for me. Swades movie was abt samaj seva but it was directed in an involving way...Something lacked in those tracks and to add to it CVs never showed Anandi studying I think which every one wanted to see...The problem is that a serial remains interesting even if characters remains irritating...but now anandi's enduring torture and Gauri's torturing others have become super boring...It doesn't affect much when Gauri call anandi dramebazz neither does it feel good when gauri suffers. I sort of lost emotions good and bad for both the characters...Now in haveli we r gonna have A G round 2...Its like uttaran Tappu keeps doing bad things, iccha continues being good and suffer...After a point it becomes hard to even pity the good character becoz it starts looking like oh she likes being like this... After JG left haveli i was so keen to see what a will do and move on...But nothing happened much.
Edited by vasuja - 07 October 2011 at 5:59am