Soumya , just because Society frowns on it does not make it wrong !!!! In Saudi Arabia it is iilegal for a woman to walk without a maharam and not wear a nikab ( the full burqa unlike the Hijab . )She is brain washed as a child that "even a stray strand of hair can get a man to stop in his tracks ." So it is immoral and illegal and her responsibility to always wear a nikab outside the home .So a regualar woman belives in the nikab and will justify it . If she leaves home without her maharam and her nikab she will feel guilty of provoking a man's sexulaity !!!!
Do you honestly think boy and girl, Man - woman hanging out(platonically - No sex) is wrong ??
If yes , then we are not on the same page and this discussion is not relevant .
If No , then why still even in conservative towns a girl will get thrashed if her parents catch her casually talking to a boy . The Society will gossip about her and ruin her relationship and probably she may not even get rishtas.
.There was a sad and horrific incident a few months back of a man in Pakistan that even killed his daughters (honor killing ) out of suspicion !! Then there was the police woman in Meerut that thrashed a couple in the park !! For what ????????????????????? You are not even allowed to platonically date a man ?????? Is that how Draconian we are ??
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p.s - the angry face is for that Meerut Police Woman not you .!! 😊
Oh i read your words again and did find the colour difference . So let me add more .
Soumya - as for black mail , if sh*t was to happen to some one it would happen in 100 ways . A guy who has a sweet kissy kissy - hand holding , hug only sort of relationship can black mail a girl on the basis of these photos too !!!
As for your being unable to ask your married friend who is unhappy in her marriage . Fortunately , me and my closets girl friends are very open about discussion on sex and we have never hesitated in sharing experiences and stuff . Like i said , you have to experince this to be able to speak about what a woman feels . Other than that you can only make guesses . Unless you've been there ...done that you can not know what it feels like to be there and do that . You can just try .....just try and think what would i feel . But you don't what it feels like !!
Debators - Soumya , Anu , others i am not arguing , debating any more ( at least for 1 week ) as one member, my dearest friend just called me argumentative and stubborn while debating !!!!!😭 My feelings are hurt !!
Also , in this debate - i am alone in the other side of the fence while others are on one side of the fence !!!!!😭
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