@bold red do u really mean it????
i never expected u"ll say like this!! it means if sum1s parent've bad past then they don't deserve any happiness or even a prsn wid bad past isn't entitled 2've happiness after proper punishment & true repentence!!!
this is like saying that bcoz pros sell their bodies 4 the living so every prsn've the rite 2 rape them??
wen D'd married 2 V if sum1'd made IMV & CP's luvstory leaked out 2 the world then wat wud'd happened 2 D?? wudn't she b talked abt??
wat baa & bapu did??
i think they r more elegant than IMV who always tend 2 weigh oder ppl's on the basis of money only!! if IMV is scolding nirali 4 falling in luv wid jimmy then BB've also full rite 2've kicked IMV out of his house. if baapu wanted his son 2 tread the righteous path & not bcum so money minded then its wrong . but if IMV wanted his one of his son not 2 pursue his dreams & oder1 2 leave his luv then its rite. atleast baapu never forced his beliefs on IMV but IMV always forced his thinking & actions on oders!!
sorry i know u won't like it but i m really shocked 2 see u making such comments.
i liked the epi as its a happy ending wid true repentence from IMV though its a bit hurried one may b bcoz of time shortage . i m also happy 4 V & S but i wud'dbeen more happy if D's marriage wid V wudn't've been broken & S wud've been shown finding luv wid anoder man. as its not crime 2 fall in luv even 4 twice or thrice if feelings r always sincere & not of flirting or cassanova!!
Sorry to disappoint you . But My comment stands . Am absolutely unashamed to make it and I have my own reasons to be sarcastic . The show has ended and I have been sorely disappointed with the ending . This ending was brought about coz one stupid one month old affair was glorified like no ones business .
I can understand anyone's anger against IMV for ANY other reason but regarding his objections to Sabina as a bahu for that household HE WAS NOT WRONG is my firm opinion .
NO ONE understood his POV in that matter and gave HAWA to Vaibhav's affair ...especially the AGED couple BAA and MASTER . Of ALL the people they should have understood on WHAT grounds IMV objected to Sabina . Hence my comment . That IF they wanted Sabina SO MUCH as bahu and were ready to accept her mom's sordid past , REALLY SIT AND EXPERIENCE IT and THEN do BADI BADI BAATEIN .
That was SARCASM . I am SO SORRY but if my son decides to marry the daughter of a woman acting in po*n videos I wud FLIP MY LID . I wud definetely not jump around in joy acting as if HE got a manna from heaven like Baa and Motilal Master r doing . If they have so much guts ...this serial shud have gone a little more further and shown that Sabina's mom REFUSES to give up her bread and butter , is unashamed of it and asks this Virani family ...Whats Wrong with doing Mehnat and earning Money , even this is Mehnat . U know what , as a gift I am gonna do cabaret on My Damads wedding . I want u guys to accept me for who I am .
PRESS shud be there , their relatives from MAANGROL shud be there . And I wud like to see their acceptance . Coz they judged IMV as bad when he was simply NORMAL in wanting the best for his son .
Mind u I am talking ONLY of this issue . In other issues I give a leeway ...I DO UNDERSTAND that He was wrong in blackmailing her or ALL the other things he did . But In his dislike of Sabina as bahu for his house , I DO UNDERSTAND HIS CONCERNS .
Sanskaars and upbringing DO MATTER . Since Sabina's sanskaars were never that great , She had no problems living with a married man under Vaibhavs nose in his house in her room , uncaring what that married mans WIFE may feel . U see , Sanskaars TELL . She has been given NO coaching in SANSKAARS like Devki .
Sabina's goodness in taking a bullet or walking away r due to the humanity in her .She is a good human being . But Sanskaars is something different ...to become bahu of a good household , just being good human is NOT ENOUGH . A good Raising too matters .This is a hard fact of life .
Maybe I sound Prudish , puritanical and rigid . But Thats how I am .
Maybe I'm a very bad woman . But I believe that while selecting a bahu , a good family background is a MUST . I do not believe in one month old love affairs and breaking up of an institution of marraige for it .Baa and Motilal Master gave encouragement to breaking up of marraige and blessed the Vaibhav Sabina union instead of pulling up Vaibhav and telling him Focus on ur marraige , forget the past .Jo hua so Hua . I CANNOT respect Baa and Motilal at all
And oh yeah . This does NOT mean that someone with a bad past has no right to happiness . This only means that someone from a good family has a full right to be anxious or deeply concerned about WHAT kind of partner the son or daughter r selecting . Coz the atmospshere in which u r brought up moulds ur way of thinking . There r people whose fathers r serial killers , prostitutes , robbers , have AIDS . Thats very unfortunate but their past is a part of their life . They can find similiar partners who understand them well . Sabina cud easily , for instance find sumone from the Film Line who understands her . Traditional households will naturally be worried , why blame IMV , see how the public reaction was . IMV was not alone in having these concerns was he .
Lets simply agree to disagree . Serial has ended and our views r not gonna change .Argument karke kya Faida .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 30 September 2011 at 8:57am