Joined: 02 September 2004
since this press debacle started and jassi is getting pressured to marry purab(all friendship and very little sparks), i thought i would find out what you guys and gals think.
my take is that sparks and chemistry are a product of certain moments and point of view but friendship is a stable column , you can lean on anytime, with a little work on relationship, it never changes. marraige should have friendship first and then you can hope you are caught in maelstorm of sparks forever( you will have some moments anyways)
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these are my opinions only and no one has to agree with them
i personally think in marriage friendship is more important, because when you grow old with your relationship all you have left is friendship with eachother. here in canada when children move out of parents house all parents are left with is each other. so when you are not young anymore, that spark is not there, you should be good listners to eachother, and that means you should be eachothers friends. a good partner is one who can listnen to the other one when they are needed and it happens when your husband or wife is good friend of your.
so i think friendship is very important, mind you spark is needed too to keep relationship going, but friendship is more important
Joined: 16 June 2004
absolutely...i think marriage is all about trust and friendship
and BTw nicely said ishaan2000
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Agree, Annie and Pmahesh, both (and trust and respect) are important.
Spark, to keep the relationship exciting and friendship, to keep the relationship going. I believe that spark can be kept alive, if both partners nurture the relationship. BTW, spark in my dictionary mean 'chemistry'.
Also, depends whether it is a 'love' (where one finds their own spouses) or 'arranged' (parents/relatives find the match) marriage. Normally, in a 'love' marriage, both elements, i.e. spark and friendship, are present, at least during the 'dating phase'. Whereas, in 'arranged' marriage there is a possibility that the 'spark' might not be present in the starting of the relationship and at times, even later. In 'arranged' marriage, the relationship is, most of the time, based on trust and friendship.
All said and done, I think all depends on an individual and many times on the circumstances.
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