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sabz_m Goldie
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Posted: 24 January 2006 at 4:40am | IP Logged

OK guys so what do u think about the way we go about gettting married. i mean when it comes to proposals. a girl has to wait for proposals to come. the guys family comes to the girl for proposals but not the other way around.

i think this is wrong cos a girl can be single for a long long time this way. sorry i prob didnt explain very well but i tried lol.

so wat does every1 think abt this? as i said i think its wrong but i don't think its gona change.



Edited by sabz_m - 24 January 2006 at 4:51am

MS.ATTITUDE Goldie
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Posted: 24 January 2006 at 8:44am | IP Logged
It can b both ways, it's nt necessary dat a guyz family shd go to gals house n gal's family can also snd proposal like HAZRAT KHADEJA (PBUH) PROPOSED HOLY PROPHET(PBUH) isliye jis ko jo sahi lagta hai wo kare waise in pak guyz family goes to gals house mostly.
sabz_m Goldie
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Posted: 24 January 2006 at 9:52am | IP Logged
yeh thats wat i'm sayin. i kno that HAZRAT KHADEJA (PBUH) proposed to our Prophet (PBUH). but i dunno why it jus doesnt really happen in pakistan or amongst pakisani people. i thnk this should change.

oh thanx for replyin n giving ur points..Ms attitude Smile
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Posted: 24 January 2006 at 1:32pm | IP Logged
i think it should change too, cos then girls may have problems getting married, cos they have to wait
sabz_m Goldie
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Posted: 24 January 2006 at 3:35pm | IP Logged
Yup exactly.!!! wat if ur ready to marry but u hav to wait for proposals...could take forever!!!
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Posted: 24 January 2006 at 4:33pm | IP Logged
I don't know about Pakistani culture . But in India once a girl is marriageable age , then the girls family starts hunting for a suitable guy and elders who are often neutral ground (like Muasi , bua ....often not parents of the girls) contact the elders of the Boys family for the rishta. And thats how a match is fixed or considered !!
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