Originally posted by JensonMishti
Posted on your thread Didi...i just hope mods are reading this thread
This is the response i made to your post so everyone can see it!
How exactly have i insulted your culture?, i love your culture! You state "this is not the
place to instigate a political discussion" yet DABH is totally political
with its themes of "terrorism". Lets face it the lead female had her
mum and dad killed hideously by a mindless terrorist attack!! If that is
not political then what is! This show is therefore clearly not a show
that wouldn't get this kind of response from viewers! it is very
provocative with its "bloody Americans" and "bloody English" comments in
episode one! It is tackling very relevant issues with the forced
marriage! Why cant I talk about this when its in the show!! My
"superiority complex" came about on here as a defence mechanism to
sublimate the abuse and ignorance of the matter that posts like the
above have against me! Why? because I asked if a character was a
Homosexual! What on earth is wrong with that? Do you not allow
homosexuals to have freedom in India then? Is it something to be
bullied for? Dont you realise a percentage of the TV industry writers, directors, producers are either gay or very supportive of that, we like in a society with all sorts of people! Cant we all get along? I know many that long to have more Gay characters in the programming but know they cant because of all the bigotry! Things have to change eventually don't they? DABH is moving this on with its ambiguous characterisations! Even last night we had a scene making reference to "nuts" and a man putting his arm around another man! That can be perceived as being subtly Homosexual weather you like it or not!
Why cant you just realise that people have opinions
about others culture just as DABH did and still does! I have been
slandered over and over on here for being from the UK and one of the
posts had to be removed by a moderator as it was literally threatening my
life!! Why because i say that women have rights to live in freedom as
they do in the Uk! Because women have the right to choose their future
as they do in the UK!! Because women have the right to emerge from under
the tyranny of a system that you yourself call the "flaws of my
country" It is television that changes things and i believe that you don't realise that Star Plus acquiring shows like DABH is actually
trying to do this in a subtle way just as it did with the Gulaal! You claim its is a "global" community yet you clearly dont want that to include India in that open and fairness that we all want dont we? If you did wouldn't you be open to these kind of discussions inspired by DABH?
do you know that things cant change for women because of these shows!
Why cant you all support my points and we can discuss the real feelings
this show brings up in people! Or is it that people like the safety to project their fears and longings for freedom into the character that they are utterly obsessed with such as Sandhya, infuriating you
when anyone says anything against her! Your identification with her
suffering therefore easing your own!! That is the therapeutic value of drama if
you didn't know!! My point is that its clear that DABH is using this
example to try and instigate healthy change on a subtle level!
when you watch Sandhya your heart goes out to her, whose wouldn't?
She's breaking down in every episode constantly crying through her
marriage which indeed should be a joyous time! Yet the MIL is enjoying
every minute and cant wait to get her home can she! It reflects life
and people want to talk about these things! My country had been
insulted by you guys that have ganged up on me over and over! This is
gang mentality and we all know what happens with that! Its-not rational
I love India and I am actually learning two of your
dialects for the research on my role for a film im in! I love Star
Plus cant you all see that? I have never ever insulted India! I have
just pointed out like you have the flaws as reflected in DABH!! I can
also point out flaws in my country as well! Why cant we all just get
I believe this bullying of me is actually therapeutic for
you all. Its clear you are venting some of the anger you clearly all
feel towards the system but cant show it because of an indoctrinate you
have had to swallow! I don't mind your bullying if that is the case
as I understand its underpinning relevance to the healing that can take
place in you selves! However please be mindful that in doing so you are
all creating your own negative return of Karma! Hating anyone
transmits a vibration that only affects the person who has it! That is
a fact when viewed through the theory of relativity! "like attracts
like!" does it not!
I can remind you all that I am ok and good!
That fact will assist the guilt that you all clearly are feeling for
ganging up on me! If not why do you all keep mentioning this "ganging
up" on me! So don't worry i'm as fantastic and wonderful as ever! In
fact i'm even more so after this! Cant you all learn from this and
Edited by Angelbud - 30 September 2011 at 3:31am