Balika Vadhu

   

Mere pyaar mein kya kami reh gayi thee? (Page 4)

Post Reply New Post

Page 4 of 5

Page 1 Page 3
Page   of 5
Page 5 Page 5

fast trak

IF-Rockerz

fast trak

Joined: 17 February 2006

Posts: 5508

Posted: 27 September 2011 at 10:26am | IP Logged
iss qstn ka mazaa  tab aayega the day G leaves J and goes away to further her career and J asks the same qstn to her LOL

The following 5 member(s) liked the above post:

sreevaskILoveDramaRuhani..tiny15khusi_*

Dear Guest, Being an unregistered member you are missing out on participating in the lively discussions happening on the topic "Mere pyaar mein kya kami reh gayi thee? (Page 4)" in Balika Vadhu forum. In addition you lose out on the fun interactions with fellow members and other member exclusive features that India-Forums has to offer. Join India's most popular discussion portal on Indian Entertainment. It's FREE and registration is effortless so JOIN NOW!

fast trak

IF-Rockerz

fast trak

Joined: 17 February 2006

Posts: 5508

Posted: 27 September 2011 at 10:27am | IP Logged
sorry repeat post

Edited by fast trak - 28 September 2011 at 2:35am

Ruhani..

IF-Dazzler

Ruhani..

Joined: 16 February 2009

Posts: 2790

Posted: 27 September 2011 at 10:52am | IP Logged
Anandi knows that she is not at fault for her broken relationship.If anyone is at fault it is jagiya...the thing is koi kitna bhi strong ho, we all r humans..and she is a woman, jisne apni saari zindagi, uska saara past Jagiya Jagiya se bhara wah hai...wherever she looks back, it's only Jagiya Jagiya, and being human, and a sensitive person, it natural that she feels empty inside and her agony questions her own love.(ignoring her intellect thinking )


ok, answering your question, what words can one use to convey to som1 like Anandi that there was no kami in her love..
well, it can be something like this...one can start like this...first of all, ''kisi bhi relationship ke kamyaab hone k liye it takes the effort of two ppl...ek haath se toh taali bhi nahi bajti (one-sided relationship, no )taali bajane k liye bhi dono haathon ka use karna chahiye.''

The following 7 member(s) liked the above post:

divyababusreevaskILoveDramapjyofast traktinookhusi_*

sreevask

Goldie

sreevask

Joined: 11 March 2011

Posts: 1990

Posted: 27 September 2011 at 11:04am | IP Logged
Clap
Originally posted by fast trak

iss qstn ka mazaa  tab aayega the day G leaves J and goes away to further her career and J asks the same qstn to her LOL


ROFLROFL luv ur post!!Clap

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

fast trak

hooked

IF-Dazzler

hooked

Joined: 19 January 2011

Posts: 2548

Posted: 27 September 2011 at 12:08pm | IP Logged
Anandi's understanding of love is basically flawed.She has always grown up with women around her kowtowing and pandering to the needs of their menfolk. And that's what she was always advised to do by her mom n DS n the entire sasra and village womenfolk.

So, while Jagya came to her for his homework n she cud do it, all was good. When she cudn't help in that dept anymore, she decided to use the kitchen route, which worked till he went for MBBS and became a health freak. Even then, she racked her brains n got him cornflakes etc to keep him happy. She tried to keep her self gainfully occupied with the girls school, since he had told her not to study any further. So far, I think none of us had problems with her. But when he just became too much of a city guy  - Anandi became confused n lost. She couldn't understand how else to please him. And I think till now she is lost - that is why she sided with n now funds his city expenses. She is somewhere still trying to please him and is earnestly wishing that he will see her and her love and need for him and reciprocate completely.

As much as I have started getting bugged by her Jhansi-ki-rani avtar of late - I feel for her coz there is no one who can see what happened and when and where things started going wrong. Gehna is sharp and perceptive n had tried to help but Anandi fobbed her off. This goes on to prove that we all need to have a confidant. If u stay completely bottled up in your own self, then u deny yourself any fresh perspective. We all need to make more friends and share life.

To answer - mere pyaar me kya kami - as many of you have said - tell her, you were a convenient habit, but he has learnt to do without you and has found another habit. It has nothing to do your being worthy of his love - he has just found another source to satify his needs so don't hold your breath for him to come back.

The following 12 member(s) liked the above post:

divyababuangeldust_Picasso9vasujasreevaskpjyoILoveDramaRuhani..fast traktinootiny15khusi_*

tinoo

IF-Rockerz

tinoo

Joined: 30 June 2011

Posts: 5164

Posted: 27 September 2011 at 10:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by parri814

 
So to come full circle, my take on this is LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH.  Evolving, improving changing for the better will keep your love alive on the giving and receiving end.  we constantly need to reinvent ourselves to remain interesting without losing our essence of being the good soul that your partner initially fell in love with.
  
 
Hi Parri,  loved your post, very thoughtful and well written ClapClap.  I particularly love your last paragraph -- I think this is great!!!
 
To take this point further and expand on the discussion - the question I have is  - where is the line between re-inventing oneself and losing one's own identity to please someone by dressing differently/doing something differently? 
 
For instance, anandi did not like those western clothes at all - the short skirts etc.  It's not like she took to them like a fish to water.  It's something that made her very uncomfortable.
 
 
 
 
 
 

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

pjyo

sreevask

Goldie

sreevask

Joined: 11 March 2011

Posts: 1990

Posted: 28 September 2011 at 4:48am | IP Logged
As a chinese proverb says, ''eat for your self & dress for others'' ,what's wrong in pleasing her husband? on other hand she wants 'im 2 b modern by presenting a goggle,why not she?

They r in an age where eyes work powerful than heart n mind..At least doesn't his parents understand his bio needs as he had just tasted itz sweetness n left alone?That's why DS was so particular 'bout parpota,because his children will stop 'im from committing mistakes na?

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

fast traktinoo

tinoo

IF-Rockerz

tinoo

Joined: 30 June 2011

Posts: 5164

Posted: 28 September 2011 at 5:03am | IP Logged
@sreevask -- great chinese saying. Thanks! LOL
 
yes, she gave him goggles, but not because she wanted him to be modern, but because he himself loved goggles since childhood, and used to wear and collect these types of goggles.
 
So, she was giving him something of his interest.
 
If he loved coloured turbans (like the one madan singh wears) she would have given him that. 
 
so it wasnt her desire that he be modern.  She liked him exactly as he was.
 
He on the other hand had some modern tastes which were clashing with what she felt comfortable with  (the western dress etc.)  -- which is why I ask.  If she were to change her dressign style to please him -- then is it innovating herself or is it one more act of pandering to his useless whims and fancies?

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

sreevask

Post Reply New Post

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Topic Starter Replies Views Last Post
Yeh dadisa kahan gayab ho gayi? Mohini19 0 1098 05 August 2010 at 3:51pm
By Mohini19
Balika Vadhu (DAR Gayi DADISA) - 30 Oct PRECAP promoking 0 627 29 October 2009 at 9:28am
By promoking
BV (PIHAR Kyun Gayi Hai) - 13 Oct CU 2 promoking 0 425 13 October 2009 at 8:54am
By promoking
Balika Vadhu (Shyaam Sugna Ka PYAAR) -04/09 PRECAP promoking 0 632 03 September 2009 at 12:35pm
By promoking
Aye mere watan ke logonů - Article niveditha 3 480 17 August 2009 at 4:19pm
By Varni4LiFe

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category

Active Forums

Balika Vadhu Topic Index

Limit search to this Forum only.

 

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.