Mere pyaar mein kya kami reh gayi thee? - Page 2

🤣 @haveli and anandi being siamese twins!!!

Originally posted by: pjyo

i think time for words is over,that haveli has become some sort of cocoon and she is too used to staying inside it..she needs to be uprooted from that haveli for it has become part of her,like siamese twins need surgical seperation to thrive on her own..it will be difficult but distance and  time away from haveli  is what she needs .. 

yes...time over for words..so true jyo!!

her love for jagya was immortal but jagya was an oppurtunist who doen't love anyone and in time this guy will not accept this child as he is not competent for any responsibility such people shrug anything sso he did nothing for anandi whom he owes his own life  such mean people luv themselves and has used gauri will surely leave her in passage of time 

Originally posted by: khusi_*

yes...time over for words..so true jyo!!

she needs to get out from haveli...but how...i think when she will get one more set back!😕

why wait for setbacks khushi,baahar nikalne se pehle khud  nikal jaaye she should take control of her life--😉get all the haveli people in drawing room(vaise bhi full time vahaan chai peethe rehte hain😉) tell them,"i luv u guys,i know you luv me too but i need to get out to retain my own sanity,yahaan rahoongi toh jagya kii yaadon mein khoyi rahoongi kyunki everything reminds me of your naalayak ehsan faramosh laadesar😡,so i to focus on ME i need to move out,..please, no more laado stay back melodramas🤪,iam bored of crying too.🥱...let me go for some years to focus on my education,baaki kaa baad mein sochenge😆..😉dadisa ,i have taught gehna to make adrak tea,yeah,mere uthne acchha nahi banaa payegi😛 but still usi see kaam chala lo😆..tata bye bye..thari bahut bhali ho gayi😉  abb time for  mhari bhali  hove😆"makhan kaka  bag uthaao...😍 Edited by pjyo - 12 years ago

kya baat kar rahi ho jyo...usko "ME" ka matlab kahan pata ha😆i...taki woh soche apne baren main...yehi toh main...sab chahte hain...

but tavi possible hai...jab usko yeh baat samajh ayega ki...singh family k taraf uska koi farz ab baaki nehin hai...she is just wasting her time thinking that...the family is her world!!

@pjyo -- I think that haveli folks would be more than happy to see her leave.  There will be no more "laado stay back" melodramas because the melodrama was not to make her stay there forever.

Originally posted by: khusi_*

kya baat kar rahi ho jyo...usko "ME" ka matlab kahan pata ha😆i...taki woh soche apne baren main...yehi toh main...sab chahte hain...

but tavi possible hai...jab usko yeh baat samajh ayega ki...singh family k taraf uska koi farz ab baaki nehin hai...she is just wasting her time thinking that...the family is her world!!

 

ab uske dimag yeh baat ane ke liye...kuchh solid dhamaka toh hona zaruri hai...

otherwise i lost all hopes...really...

bv is moving in a circle!!

yep she is 0% Me  jagya is 100%ME..😉dus percent jagya se udhar le le  toh life sudhar jayegi chori kii😆.. Edited by pjyo - 12 years ago

@tinoo i too feel so , anandi should leave towards that  brighter future ..🤔..soon dadisa will get over her 'feeling guilty for anandi's situation' with new potha/pothi news and they too would want  some sort of settlement for anandi,only bhairav wouldn't be too happy ..but seeing her moving forward successfully   he could later  agree..

Originally posted by: tinoo

Yesterday, anandi asked a question to phooli  "Jagya mujhse door chale gaye, mere pyaar mein kya kami reh gayi thi?"

 

I want to ask how to answer this question if someone asks me this question about their relationship.

 

I would like to tell anandi that it wasnt about her,  it was jagya's own failing. There was no kami in her pyaar.

 

But somehow the words dont come to me.

 

Any help appreciated.  How to persuade someone that there was no kami in their pyaar?

If she asks this ques to me..I wud say "nobody knws abt ur relationship wid ur husband better than u two.. u need to think abt Dos n Don'ts f ur relationship on ur own
but as an impartial outsider.. i don't see u responsible fr failure f ur marriage
but yes..u did go wrong wid 1 thng..u gave too much liberty & trusted ur husband blindly

All said & done.. & after wht he has done.. he ruined ur past.. don't let him ruin ur future
no need to waste ur tears on him
sooner or later he ll hav to pay fr his misdeeds"

Bloody Jagya..i wanna kill him !!

That's y Pyar(love) is the most abused term in the world.
Out of her long term acquaintance with J, she cd nvr establish a strong heart 2 heart relationship tht cd surpass the " out of sight is out of mind" situation.Normally village girls r very cautious in this aspect.

The moment she smelled the rot @ mumbai b'day she shd 've shifted over 2 there,by thoroughly convincing the oncoming threat 2 her marriage as well as haveli izzat.Also 4 a married girls,sasural ki ghar means a place where husband stays never his parents'.

The role of friends needs to b mentioned here. Neither phooli, nor J's frnd evr tried 2 stop d nonsense.


Evn ftr she learnt dat she's betryed,she shd try 2 show dat she kn become even gr8r by utilizing her study skills & prove she's n't a gawar.

Itz like CVs asking 4 post mortem report on the assault committed by 'em.