Posted: 27 September 2011 at 2:13am | IP Logged
OH YOU ARE BACK!!! I am so glad seeing you post in PR forum at last...please do not leave us again. PR forum is incomplete without you.
To your question...Who is the bigger psycho b/w Archana and Varsha?? Got to say that its a close race, both are inching towards the red line with each passing day.
I am equally furious at Archana for her proposition to give Soham to psycho Varsha and also her suggesting that a child should be near a person who has completely lost her mental balance.
I also agree that Archana deserves the harshest punishment from Manav for even suggesting it. Although I doubt that Archana would ever take Soham to Varsha without Manav's permission, however if she does then I would not defend her from any punishment that Manav chooses for her even if it is divorce.
But my question is whether divorce is the only punishment? Divorce would close all outlets for any kind repentance from Archana. Even Indian law give criminals a chance to repent, so wouldn't divorce be like capital punishment for her which would close all doors for her to be penitent.
Archana needs to feel guilty and has to be made to feel that she is wrong and only one person can do this and that is Manav. Archana needs to be punished as a mother not as a wife.
If Archana does go against Manav's will and takes Soham to Varsha without Manav's permission, which I am hoping she wouldn't, then Manav should forbid Archana to be anywhere near Soham or even Sachin. He should clearly proclaim his dictum on her that if she doesn't care for their children's welfare then she doesn't need to be their mother.
The court would not be able to refrain archana from meeting the children since visibly she is not gone cuckoo like Varsha , the benefit that Manav would probably get from Archana's intention would be that he would win the children's custody. Archana and Manav will only suffer and yearn for each other and then we all will be demanding CVs to reunite them. And I don't care to do that anymore.
Reiterating my statement, Archana needs to be punished as a mother more than as a wife for her to realize her mistakes and her lunatic way of thinking. Punishments are given to make the person realize mistake not to put yourself and that person together in grief. There is no doubt that Manav loves Archana, so why can't Manav as a husband punish her instead divorcing her which would only lead to more suffering than any improvement in the current scenario.
Manav should make Archana see sense...he needs to guide her towards the right direction. If Manav cannot do that what are they in a relationship for...not for just baby making process.
I still hold my ground that divorce is an easy way out of all the mess. Manav as a husband and father should have the capability to wade through the storm keeping his family intact.
I also want to say that I am not advocating ArMan not to divorce because I am die hard fan of their romance. After the leap, I find their romance just the usual kind...neither I see archana's madness in love (she's mostly bothered about K bunch) nor I see the simplicity in Manav's love. For me, divorce is just not the only solution.
The only couple I really would like to see be divorced in PR, its Ajit and Vandita. They would have all the right reason with no appropriate reason for counselling otherwise.
What's being shown from Archana's side is utterly disgusting and I by no means understand or go by her point of thinking.
Anyway, Kool di it is so nice to read from you and to write my opinion to you. You are indeed a great enabler for discussion and debate and a forum requires that.
Your appreciators will always remain on this forum...hope you keep on posting. Hoping and waiting to read your views on today's episode too.