Hi Guys , long time no see . I dropped this serial but got many pms requesting me to see this phase and give my opinion on it as once I was a regular part of this forum , my views were missed . So I saw it and before giving any views am asking 2 questions
Let us ALL assume we r married women . [ Yes , even those who r unmarried .} Our husband , without asking us , straightaway decides to give our child to his psychotic brother . What would be our reaction ?
Let us assume we are married MEN . Our wife gives up our child to her psychotic sister and declares firmly I am giving it to her for ADOPTION . We lose ALL right on it . I am gonna leave you and live with our child near my psychotic sister .
The answer to the first question from MY end is , I would leave my husband FOREVER and live with my child in a SAFE PLACE , putting a restraining order on him to even come near it as he has intentions of handing it over to a psychotic woman .
The answer to the second question is ...I would dump my wife FOREVER by filing for divorce ...and fight her in court so that she does not get that child even for ONE DAY as she may use it to give it to psychotic sister .
I am NOT telling all the acidulated barbs that I would give the wife or the husband for even THINKING of endangering my baby .
So Why are CVS deciding such a mild punishment for Archana like not eating her food or sleeping seperately etc ? Honestly , if a spouse decides to give a child away WHETHER hubby likes it or not , is the matter so trivial that such a mild reaction is shown as if it is an EVERYDAY NOK JHOK of ATI PATNI in the house ?
Last time divorce was shown when there was no necessity .Why is it not shown NOW when indeed there is necessity ?
Varsha is so psychotic , she has thrown and hit Archana with a glass paper weight , tried to strangle her , today tried to KILL her mother in law . Is she is ANY condition to have ANY baby ? Forget Soham , even if she had her OWN baby it should have been taken away from her and Archana wants to give a baby to HER ??? HUH ????
Does Archana realize that Varsha in her psychosis may endanger any kid playing with Soham if he merely takes away a toy from soham or the kids mom if she has hallucinations and fears its a woman come to take away Soham ?
Varsha is currently a POTENTIAL THREAT to society and needs to be locked up and put in a straitjacket .
My question is: WHO is the bigger psycho ? Varsha is clearly one and NOT in her senses and NOT responsible for her actions . But Archana has SEEN her state and is constantly dying to entrust a defenceless child with this psychotic woman . Will Manav put her in a loony bin and put HER in a strait jacket too ?
What is not eating food and sleeping with back to her gonna accomplish if she goes ahead and does what she wants ? And even if she does NOT succeed in doing it , She has to be punished for even THINKING in such a way for endangering Manav's child .
Yes the child is ALSO his child and she needs to know that she has NOT conceived it immaculately .
The Archana supporters in this serial are gathering ...Ashna and Vandita . Already dialogues like ARCHANA BHI APNI JAGAH SAHI HAI r being thrown around , making Manav weak .
I object to that . Archana is OH SO NOT RIGHT ON APNI JAGAH . She is COMPLETELY WRONG this time so CVS plzzz do not BOTHER with this .
Also the way to exonerate Archana will beby putting blame on Savita and turning Manav'sanger towards HER ALONE .
Savita is undoubtedly wrong but I ask this question ...Would we give up our babies to psyhotic sisters or brothers or anyone simply coz our saas told or mom told ?
Hell , I would not even if my husband told or GOD told .
So WHY make tayaris , cvs , of letting Archana go SCOT FREE by arranging to make a buffer ...Savita ?
Savita will get her punishment later from Rasika ...she always does . Why should Archu NEVER get a thappad or a real punishment in which a stand is taken ?
Make no mistake...Archana has listened to Savita coz somewhere , all along she had EXACTLY this thought in her mind . Right from the time the baby was conceived . in the first trimester only she wanted to give it to Varsha , WITHOUT consulting Manav . Then , after it was born she was allowing sister to take it and was making excuses to Manav .Today the REAL attitude and wish came out ...Manav let her have it na .
Manav made one mistake ...he should have slapped Archana and halted her THAT time only when she was daily giving Soham to Varsha for 3 years .
But in the two parents its Manav who has always shown at least some attachment or want to his own offspring . After miscarraige horror , it was HE who took offense , HE who was stirred enough to walk off to make money , HE who kept asking now and then Whats going on Archana , WHEN is your sister gonna return our Soham and now too its HE who is insisting that NO WAY WILL Your Psychotic sister Get OUR CHILD .
However The Manav weakeners have arrived . They r telling him that the Psycho Archana actually HAS a POINT OF VIEW here .
Let Savita tell , Let ANYONE tell , WHY Archu listened ? Coz she too WANTED that . She had those khujlis from a long time , in tapori language .
I am sure she will be exonerated this time too by showing that she SAVES Manav in DK badnaami affair or by putting blame FULLY on Savita . How the fact that she stands by Manav in DK affair obliterates the dangerous action she is doing BEATS ME . Why only Savita should be blamed stymies me .
The truth is Archana should not be allowed near Soham . When Shravani tries to take SAchu away a big hoo haa will be created saying oh it was Archu who raised the kid , this is so unfair .
Why ? When Archu can give up Manav's kid away to A psychotic woman at her wish why cannot a biological mother come and take HER kid away at her wish ?
Honestly speaking Sachu is being tremendously neglected by Archana nowdays . Savita's poisoning attempts , kept aside , its a FACT that Archana is not even THINKING of him when she decides to live with Varsha with Soham . Did she once think of that child and what HE feels ? She convenienly leaves him to his grandmothers ...Sulo and Savita .
Its Sulochana who needs to pack her bags and go to live with Bhavna to share the burden of looking after her psychotic daughter ...not Archana who is ready to leave her ghar sansaar and go there .
That flat is big and poor Bhavna is over burdened . Satish NEEDS Sulo and Bhavna BOTH . AND an ASYLUM , not another city .
They can end this miserable track with showing that Vandu apprises Savita of Rasikas devious scheme and Savita herself puts a halt to this .
But whatever happens , Archana 's character is butchered beyond repair . Please spare Manav now , do NOT show him buckling .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 26 September 2011 at 2:54pm