agreed tinoo, practice what u preach woman
agreed tinoo, practice what u preach woman
Originally posted by: intruderfastagreed tinoo, practice what u preach woman
i dont find madan singh that wrong in protecting his family izzatdont singh family do the same, didnt ds tried to hide gaga marriagei dont understnad anandi stand its diff from person to personand if it is accept it, jagya is her weak point chalo maana but then dont give useless bhashans when u urself cant follow itand, anandi is being foolish , when u r dealing with big ppl , u have to be very carefulnot just declarte urself in openinfact she could have taken ds help, she is master in planning and plottingπ , they could have made a well thought out plan just like they did with those boys teasing gulli and caught that saadhu red handedbtw the best thing is now buddhon kii classes will be over πππa huge relief
Originally posted by: angeldust_^^^^
dats too rude to term her a fool
I agree dat shez a Hypocrite..but to be more precise..Shez an UNINTENTIONAL Hypocrite..!!
Originally posted by: angeldust_@tinoo
like she asked madan.."agar aapki apni beti ke saath ye sab hota "
I wud like to ask her "don't ur parents deserve the happiness & satisfaction f seeing ur culprits behind the bars..??"
Originally posted by: tinoo
Dear angeldust:I agree with hooked's assessment that anandi is a fool - the term 'hypocrite' by itself is unintentional, so there is no need to qualify that she is unintentional hypocrite. Good you brought this up - it gives me a chance to clarify terminology. ππ. Thanks! In ethical/philosophical debates these are the differences.1. An 'intentional hypocrite' is known as an openly evil person.A wicked person is characterized bya. intention to deceive people.b. deceives people for profit to themselves.A classic example is sadhu baba. So he would not be called an intentional hypocrite, he will just be called straightforward evil. The word intentional is not required.2. An 'inconsistent person' is someone whoa. deceives oneself and cannot face the truth (intention of deceiving others is not there, but eventually others may be deceived because the person is in self-deceit)b. does not deceive people for her own profit andc. someone who has a different stand for herself at different points in time. (But does not impose that stand on others).Gauri can be called an inconsistent person.3. A hypocrite is unintentional by definitiona. deceives oneself (not others)b. does not deceive people for her own profit. andc. someone who has a clear consistent stand for herself and yet exhorts others to take a completely different stand.Anandi is a hypocrite. She is not evil because there is no intention to deceive others for her own profit -- however the stand that she takes is one consistent yardstick for herself (no punishment of jagya to send a broader social message) and another yardstick for others (punish the sadhu to send a broader social message).------------------------------------------------------A fool however is defined not by intention to deceive or by profit received but by the extent of discretion one shows in one's dealings.A wise person is diplomatic, and has a clear understanding of long-term and short-term consequences. They have a coherent strategy in place. A wise person surrounds himself with people wiser than him, so that he can improve and has the benefit of their knowledge.A fool rants and raves, has no clearn understanding of consequences and have no coherent strategy in place. A fool surrounds himself with people of lesser knowledge and lesser understanding so that all the other fools admire him and make him feel good. (I do not denigrate anandi's adult education efforts -- but come on -- is she not feeling good that she is 12th pass and teaching all the illiterate villagers -- and is this not giving her some sort of ego boost, that she indeed is worth something after jagya dumped her? If anandi were genuinely wise, she would go to university and surround herself with Ph.D. profs, and social activists and people who have started NGOs to get a broader horizon for herself? )Plato said that a fool possesses the power of speech and a wise man possesses the power of conversation. I think this applies in anandi's case too. Instead of going and trying to persuade or communicate with people... as hooked says, she just barges into people's homes and starts her speeches with no regard for the power/logic pyramid that they have in their own homes. She did not consult either madan singh or dadisa to persuade them and get their buy-in.There are so many more definitions of wise man vs. fool and by all those definitions Anandi is both a hypocrite and a fool.The word fool is just a descriptive adjective -- I do not think that hooked was trying to be rude or derogatory.
Made me feel happy for being a member of this forum.Every word of your analysis is a treasure of knowledge we had the chance 2 share n save.Expect more 4m u as always...It is the CVs who r twistin' n turning the characters without a vision leaving a hypocrite Anandi,a mindless Gouri, a Heartless J,useless haveli log & perplexed audience.
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