love arnav :) ..khushi? not so much (note on pg7) - Page 5

Originally posted by: barunroxx7

True ASR is always in angry mood but he wud not have given her da aukaat crap if she didnt play all those pranks on him . And now she pretended to faint so i wont be surprised if ASR  insults her again .  So are all these not provocation ?? Why cant she ignore him in da first place ??

Abt La training then i have no problem if she makes her gud bahu but why after ASR ?? She made ASR do pooja by lying for which she was insulted and also calling him character dheela😆

Are all these not provocations ?? ASR wud not have told her all those stuff if she didnt do all these silly things in da first place .

Originally posted by: -Drishti-

umm ok, i'm going to be in the minority here..but i needed to say this somewhere:P
why is it that everyone loves Arnav so much, feels for him..like in y'days epi when Khushi just pretended to faint? is it because he doesn't show his true emotions, but Khushi does? because shes the more realistic person in this case? What Khushi did y'day..it wasnt out of character, its who she is. Did everyone forget the way Arnav treated her? dropped her from his office, told her to help his clients park his cars in the rain, and the last straw, i.e the GH incident etc? After all this, do u'll really think that she'll be courageous enough to speak up to him...when she is what only 18 or something? Do you think that she wanted to hear that 'aukad' crap AGAIN? Honestly, i think its pretty brave of her to even talk/argue with him..coz after what he put her through, humiliated her over and over again etc shows that she is mature..she has put all that behind her, however..she cant forget it! You guys just seem to remember the times Arnav saved her life etc..what abt the times that he endanged her life?
The way she behaves, that exactly who she is..impulsive and a bit silly. This is where here innocence lies. She's scared of him, call her a coward or someone who's just trying to spare herself another talk dealing with her supposed aukat, it doesn't change the fact she is scared of his anger. She's not perfect, but come on would you guys want her to be like those typical bahu's in shows..who are shown to be the most perfect people ever..however do nothing but cry? No right!

P.S- as far as that apology scene goes..i didn't much like it..but yes..it was important to make the crying OTT, because nothing else wud have actually made Arnav smile..and abt blowing her noes..it was more to show the fact that Arnav offered her tissues..which he normally wudn't have. Had Khushi accepted it, it wud have symbolised some kind of truce between them..because he offered her something and she willingly accepted.

i don't know if my any sense or no..been studying my head out these days..so have no idea what i just wrote😆

Originally posted by: momma1128

It's an interesting conversation going on.

It's just a matter of perception of what you consider mature and not mature.  Justified behavior and unjustified behavior.  18 years old is not old, but it is also not young in the sense of understanding consequences.

ASR has always been a jerk to her and is pretty consistent with it.  He also has moments of actual human behavior, with Anjali, with Khushi, with Mami and Mama and Akash.  This flip side has been shown slowly and gradually throughout the show.

Khushi used to be consistent in her forwardness with ASR, and her avoidance of him.  He would challenge her and she would rise to the occassion and give it back.  He initiated and in those circumstances, she was absolutely right to not give him the time of day.  But that was the old Khushi before she accepted the job at the RM.  After that, I find her behavior puzzling.  

She is shown to be very mature about certain things with all people, including ASR and the way she stopped him from continuing with his aukat rant (which I can't stand) and for apologizing.  I think though this is where people find her incongruous.  After realizing what kind of person ASR is - why do the very things you know will feed into his preconceived notion about you?  As viewers we understand very well that ASR is not going to be one to let anything go and I believe Khushi understands that too.  Lecturing him on his lack of character for live in, tricking him into aarti, and now planting the idea of marriage in La's head.  She absolutely knew what she had done would have this effect, so yes, that is why it seems she is running from the consequences of her instigation.

 And the CV's have further made it seem immature by having her avoid the conversation in a very calculating manner of faking fainting (I hope that there is a very good reason for this).  Some people feel that it is quite within Khushi to avoid a fight, but the nuance in this particular instance is that she indeed had started it, whereas before ASR purposely brought the fight to her.  I think this is what has rubbed most people in the wrong direction.  At 18 years old, most people know, if you play with fire, you will get burned.

Originally posted by: -Drishti-

@bold- isn't that what she wanted to do? which is why she kept that condition! if he wud have nicely gone and come back from office like he used too before, they would have been nicely ignoring each other! 

oh so you believe that ASR can go ON and ON abt her aukat and her this and that..and she'll nicely sit and listen?? She IS going to retaliate...and if that provokes ASR even more, then i won't say its Khushi's fault. Theres a limit to what a person can take..Khushi didn't say anything when he let her fall from his cabin, or when he made her stand in the rain helping his clients park their cars..but the GH incident was the last straw..that was when she lashed out! Similarly, she didn't say anything when he humiliated her at her house, but she did speak up the next time he spoke abt her aukat. Then we had the car incident..and ok i'm not going to go narrating it all coz you've seen the scenes..but what i'm trying to say is that she will lash out if he is going to continue being like that. And to avoid such a confrontation..she's finding ways to avoid him for the simple reason that she doesn't want to lose her job!