Posted: 21 September 2011 at 6:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nigo123
Kinjal didnt treated her mom in a wrong way, she just told the truth about her mom. why doesnt ahem talk like that to kokila because he was always spoon feed. Yes kijal is right if ahem didnt have the family name tag he wouldnt be where he is today. The deals and contracts that he gets now he would have to work much harder and spend more time until he got them. How can kokila expect kinjal to make peace with her husband's condition when she herself disrespects and hates her husband for not having enough money. If kokila had set a good example for her daughter and son that no matter what you always support your spouse and treat them with respect and be their partner then kinjal would help dhaval. Ahem HAS NO RIGHT to hit kinjal no matter what she did. He is abusive and I have lost all respect for him. And this is not the first time he is psychically abusive to a woman, he also slapped gopi. And people who think kinjal needed the slap because she made a mistake so she should be punished. What century are you guys living in? You make someone understand nicely. I dont know when people would understand that Kokila has caused all the problems. If she was nicer to kinjal she wouldnt have this much resentment agaisnt her. She knows how cunning urmila is but she has forcefully put her daughter in to that house with her and told her to deal with it. Well that is her way of dealing with it. I hope Kinjal never talks to ahem again or goes and files a police complaint against him because he needs to be punished for being abusive or go to counseling. If somebody feel that they can slap their sister or wife just because she is uneducated is a abuser and will get worst by time. i dont know why they are gonna show him get away with it. The people who are supporting him, would you guys also support him if kinjal runs away from home and he finds her and kills her because apparently she made a mistake so she should be punished. And yes we make a big deal of a guy hitting a woman because in this case ahem is more dominant than kinjal.
we too live in this century and just because her brother slapped him for being disrespectful to their mother does not make him an abuser. if as you said kinjal could be spoken to nicely then like wise she too should have known how to speak to her mother irrespective of her mum's faults. my siblings irrespective of gender would have done the same as ahem.
also kinjal did run away and ahem did bring her home forcefully rather than kill her as u said.
you are right though that the main problem is kokila who is biased towards her children by favouring ahem more and paying less concentration on kinjal. but as for the marriage to dawal, she did not reveal the fake pregnancy until the proposal was approved in order to save hers and her family's dignity and only refused knowing dawal is not reach. another point is that dawal did not intend on staying at cm after the wedding rather urmi manipulated him into staying so they did not marry her to dawal in order to live a miserable life with urmi.
kokila fault to a large extend but that does not give her daughter the right to speak too rudely to her and therefore at that present moment ahem acted reasonably and within bounds. it would have been an abuse if he was not present and later slapped her when he found out.