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sexist show, the slap was soo unecessary!

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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 10:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nkapoor

does anyone agree?
AGREED !
But the good thing is Kinjal still said her piece - she wasnt going to let anyone treat her like a doormat and neither was she going to be subservient .
Her brothers slap was wrong and unjust - he felt enraged bec of her attitude towards Kokila however in slapping her he just perpetuated the same disrespect she was showing .He also showed lack of respect to his sister .

I mean who made him head monitor? Hes got a messed up relationship of his own he needs to go sort before rectifying the world.


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I am not apalled at just the slap but some forum members cheered on n said Kinjal deserved it so. How unfair!! Kinjal did whatever she did with Umang out of her blind trust in her boyfriend. She knew Kokila wouldn't have agreed to her marrying Umang so she came up with fake pregnancy drama. She didn't have the guts to straight up talk to Kokila (who does, I wonder) therefore such an unthinkable step. But she saw her brother living miserable married life everyday n she wasn't willing to go thru the same. Her intentions were never to hurt her family. She was being a little selfish but who wouldn't when your mother doesn't show an ounce of love, warmth or support you ... She was in love and did everything possible to be with him.. Hmm,sounds familiar? Gopi has been doing thesame thing from day one... She even washed his laptop!! I just can't get over this stupidity of hers... Oh boy, I digressed big time... Anyhoo, my point was that if Kokila hadn't washed off her hands of Kinjal and treated her like a daughter for once then she wouldn't have had to face this so called humiliation ...to all those who think Kinjal deserved this slap, I want you to imagine putting up with Urmila as your mother in law just for a day !!! YIKES.. If Kokila had taught Kinjal how to cook, clean n sew then maybe Kinjal wouldn't have had to resort to modeling... Think about that ever, Kokila? And it is a friggin sari ad!!!

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i completely agree with the topic started...what a sexist thing they showed today...i completely agreed with kinjal and how she stated that his only standing is that he is the familys son and works for the family business...and she wants to make something of herself...and i dont think that she did anyting wrong...

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Ahem slapping Gopi when he found out she was uneducated was WRONG. But Kinjal saying hurtful words to her mother forgetting that she is speaking to her mom not some person off the street...is legit. Making a huge scene because she was modeling again wrong... Dhaval getting upset because Kinjal didn't ask for his opinion...absolutely correct. There is a lot of right and wrong in this situation. Abuse should not be tolerated, but punishment for when you do wrong is sometimes necessary. Ahem slapped her for her attitude, not because of what she did. She needed a reality check. Just like Rashi does and Urmi does, Koki can also use one from Parag for her ill behavior towards him. But one slap is different from daily abuse. And for within good reason. And I am a Indian woman also. And if I have acted like Kinjal, I really do hope my brother slaps me back into check. 

and p.s all Indian soaps are sexist lol its just one of those things...


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Originally posted by taral83

But Kinjal saying hurtful words to her mother forgetting that she is speaking to her mom not some person off the street...is legit. ...

This is my problem rite here. Any stranger off the street would have treated Kinjal better than Kokila treats her... I am all for being strict and disciplining children but how can u tell ur daughter to be happy and make do with whatever she has when Kokila herself is ashamed of her husband's lack of ambition. She doesn't treat her husband with respect because for her money means status n that ultimately means respect ... Kinjal has seen her mother emphasizing that all her life... Kokila is so ambitious that she has turned her son into emtionless workaholic!! One way or another, she WANTS the recognition ... Kinjal, in a way, is following in her mother's footsteps!!

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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 12:17pm | IP Logged
the scene where kinjal was shown being slapped was a flop part...how can ahem do like this...poor kinjal...it was her frustration only...urmi make her life hell and on addition to that she is not able to get the comforts that she used to have earlier and on that her mother treated her as  a stranger

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