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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 8:30am | IP Logged
why does the family have to interfere in ishaans career?

totally lame reasons... and suhaana too is impossible.

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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 8:50am | IP Logged
When you are a part of a family, your decisions affects everybody in the family, we are talking about Kyshaps here who are very closely knitted family, they all take the blessings of there elders before doing anything, and this is how it use to be, unfortunately times has changed I know people just decides to migrate or go to different places and there parents are being notified the very last minute, it hurts as they are after all our parents they did a lot for us, by all means Ishaanshould go its his decission but informing the family was the right thing, and Alok ad the other family memebers opposing it because they love him so much they cant bare his departure as he would be missed by them and this is very very natural, I dont find it ridiculous for me this is a very loving family who are only seeing there love for Ishaan not his career.

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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 8:55am | IP Logged
Till now Ishaan never left his family... Now he is going to Mumbai a unkown city alone with his wife... Alok and rano have that darr, how will be Sushaan manage all alone...

Suhana didn't want to go Mumbai, as she is there in kashyaps house with everyone 24/7. When Suhana think of her mother, she immediately goes to BM room and sleep there...Everyone loves suhana and she want to be in family..

But I agree, that if it's only for 6 months.. It's OK to go to Mumbai...


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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 8:58am | IP Logged
sorry i disagree... 

staying or not staying with the family is another question.
ishaan being an adult should have the right to choose what he wants in life... things should not be imposed on him.
and moreover its just 6 months... not forever.


and, remember when panna was forcing raunak to take an offer in bangalore and his mother opposed at that time everyone was aginst raunak and mother for wanting to stay togther. at that time they were impractical.. not why change in stds.
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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 8:59am | IP Logged
I agree with Venture although i do think that the reasons and answers they gave for him not moving can deflate a person's confidence
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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 9:06am | IP Logged


     There 2 things I don't know which is more true ... So 

1 ]     Ishan never left Family Home before . Now He wants to pursue his career [ which is undestandable ] but for Family it is hard to live with out him [ As they never saw it coming or talk abt the opportunity ] For them It must b like someone just drop the BOMB . so One moment they were happy , next they learn one of the family member wants to move away . They never had chance to wrap their mind around the possibility ,  As V saw in Precap , They reconsider their decision in precap . So It's good, It was their initial thought that They don't want their son to live separate from them .

2]      Family knows Suhana 's strength , How much house work suhana does around house. They never ask her to do household chores doesn't mean they don't expect her to or doesn't want her to . Suhanna until today never show any interest in household work & it doesn't occur to her . She is not a little girl . V all leave our comfort zone behind & face the world .   BM knows for Suhana it will b hard to survive without family & so does family. 

       So I think BM's decision reflects on either or both of these reasons . as for Family It was just the initial reaction . 

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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 9:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by netri



     There 2 things I don't know which is more true ... So 

1 ]     Ishan never left Family Home before . Now He wants to pursue his career [ which is undestandable ] but for Family it is hard to live with out him [ As they never saw it coming or talk abt the opportunity ] For them It must b like someone just drop the BOMB . so One moment they were happy , next they learn one of the family member wants to move away . They never had chance to wrap their mind around the possibility ,  As V saw in Precap , They reconsider their decision in precap . So It's good, It was their initial thought that They don't want their son to live separate from them .

2]      Family knows Suhana 's strength , How much house work suhana does around house. They never ask her to do household chores doesn't mean they don't expect her to or doesn't want her to . Suhanna until today never show any interest in household work & it doesn't occur to her . She is not a little girl . V all leave our comfort zone behind & face the world .   BM knows for Suhana it will b hard to survive without family & so does family. 

       So I think BM's decision reflects on either or both of these reasons . as for Family It was just the initial reaction . 

I agree to both points, I never said Ishaan shouldnt go as thats his career and his choice but being part of the joint family, the reaction was understandable, I know my relatives who have turned down opportunities abroad because they didnt want to leave there parents, thats very common , just as people leaving there home all the time for education and job, and we get mixed reactions some families approves it and happily let them go others are dissapointed but still let them go. The topic maker didnt get my point which I made that , IShaan ,s leaving for Mumbai is NOT wrong wether for 6 months or forever as its his choice , my point is family reaction is understandable as they refused it initially because they were only thinking of there love for him.

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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 9:22am | IP Logged

even when you turn 50, then also your parents wud be worrying for you... so very natural...Smile Kashyaps are worried... Justifiable to me... but I am sure they wudn't stop Ishaan... they will let him fly in the sky... Big smile

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