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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 9:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by andv

As far as I understand from what they have shown of his silly pravachans is that a widow needs to dedicate her whole life in the name of God. This involves pooja pat, fasting, etc, etc. Indulging in any other activity is termed as a big sin in HIS books. Going to study or spend time in A's class thus would mean deviating from his preachings which she did not want to do without taking his permission. This is what I understood... But the Cvs are experts in creating weird bloopers  
 
Yup!! ClapClap

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 10:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tinoo

Something i dont understand is why asha felt she needed the baba's permission to begin with.
 
I mean I know a lot of women who believe in sadhus... but they go for an hour or two a day to the temple/ashram ... they listen ... and then they come back.  The baba thing is more of an activity and not a person who decides what they do in the rest of their hours.
 
And asha too was not engaged in any personal consultations with the baba.  Its not like he is the family guru who has to be consulted about kundalis and stuff before starting anything.
 
She too would go, sit, listen and come back.
 
In fact, the sadhu was himself quite surprised that she stayed back today to speak with him.
 
And what she had to say to him was not a highly personalized secret or something like that.  It could have been said in the open despite four people sweeping around.
 
Something does not connect. 
 
 
 
 

actually what the DHONGUUU preaches about is how should a woman live her life without having a single flair of smile on her face after her husband has died and if she cant do that she is commiting a big SIN and what  ANANDI MISS says is exactly the opposite.Since Asha had blind faith in the Dhongi Buddha she found the decision very tough and so she went to ask for permission.As far as  her talking to him in personal is concerned,as she knew what she was going to ask is completely against what SAFRON RANGEELA teaches she felt shy in asking the same in front of everyone.

Chalo Jo hota hain ache ke liye hota hain.ye nahi hota to Asha ko koi IS BHAGWA BANMANUSH ke changul se chuda nahi sakta tha.

I hope Asha uses her brains now and lives her life like everybody else


Edited by payalgarg - 19 September 2011 at 10:07am

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 10:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tinoo

@monalisa -- yes, but i still dont get it.  why would she need advice for her future? It's not like she was starting off on a career path or something highly radical? (Not that anandi's school can lead to a career anyway LOL). It was just supposed to be a halka-fulka activity that anandi was inviting her to - for a couple of hours a day -- nothing non dharmik or anything like that.  Just go, make a few puppets or some sort of arts and crafts, socialize with the kakas and kakis -- and leave it at that.
 
Infact, the guru did not even expect him to consult her. He was so surprised when she stayed back - his eyes showed the surprise.
 
The point which Im trying to make is that there was nothing highly radical about something she was going to do -- like planning to attend a college, or to re-marry or to ditch her black outfit and start wearing a coloured ghagra choli like anandi -- which would require consulting him.
 
 

@Bold - how true !! ROFLROFLROFL

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 10:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tinoo

@monalisa -- yes, but i still dont get it.  why would she need advice for her future? It's not like she was starting off on a career path or something highly radical? (Not that anandi's school can lead to a career anyway LOLLOLLOLLOL). It was just supposed to be a halka-fulka activity that anandi was inviting her to - for a couple of hours a day -- nothing non dharmik or anything like that.  Just go, make a few puppets or some sort of arts and crafts, socialize with the kakas and kakis -- and leave it at that.
 
Infact, the guru did not even expect him to consult her. He was so surprised when she stayed back - his eyes showed the surprise.
 
The point which Im trying to make is that there was nothing highly radical about something she was going to do -- like planning to attend a college, or to re-marry or to ditch her black outfit and start wearing a coloured ghagra choli like anandi -- which would require consulting him.
 
 
-----------------------------------------------Choti gaaon ki unpad ladki,kya samjhe woh badi baat...jo guru kahe,usi ko such maane! Ab jo usne dekha baba ka asli roop,to hosh aaya hai thikaane.

Edited by monalisa2010mam - 19 September 2011 at 11:06am

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 10:37am | IP Logged
ASHA A TOO CONSERVATIVE WIDOW THEY HAVE SHOWN CAN'T EAT SWEETS OR GO IN OPEN SOCIETY SO SHE WANTED TO CONFEESS THAT SHE WANTED TO STUDY IF BABA ALLOWS OTHERWISE SHE WILL NOT GET MOKHSA SO SHE WENT ISOLATED 

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 10:42pm | IP Logged

I have seen many well educated people blindly believing in Babas...

It all depends on how much faith one has on these babas...Asha was totally blined by his preaching and looked up tp him as her's life's guide...I wonder how could she trust him tht guy looked creepy from the 1st day itself.

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 11:23pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by niharika_n

...I wonder how could she trust him tht guy looked creepy from the 1st day itself.

 
LOLLOLLOLLOL  Good one. I too had that thought but did not voice it, since it might be construed as an insult to the actual actor playing the sadhu. 

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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 4:26am | IP Logged
      A Guru is always a Guru.He taught his chela practically how cautious shd she be with men in the society,& I'm sure this lesson opens her eyes & make her come outa her dungeon.

Guru's midas touch will change her life 4 better, & his life 4 worse!what a sacrifice!

Edited by sreevask - 20 September 2011 at 4:29am

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