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Natik >Straw that broke the camels back!

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 12:49am | IP Logged
Natiks  always been with the fact that he sees Akshara not giving him the time and commitment that he requires .
Right or wrong that's his nature he needs and likes to be pampered from his wife and feel important.
Now Rajshri has become the straw that has broken the camels back and caused true confrontation in their relationship .

For Natik Rajshri has epitomised everything that he sees wrong in his and Akshara's relationship.
Ironic that although Rajshri has left her own family and is doing all the household chores in the Singhania house she is still unappreciated by Natik.Yes he outwardly sees shes cooked etc etc but internally  he is begrudging.

Rajshri wasn't the real problem but Akshara's behaviour towards Natik is. Akshara  manages to absorb herself in everyone else but Natik thus giving rise to such feelings.Just as in the never ending Rashmi wedding Akshara took it upon herself ( rather unnecessarily ) to do everything much to Natiks dismay.When it comes to Natik she uses the same 'jane do Natik mujhe bohat kaam hain'.

Natiks behaviour is childish but thats the way he is and Akshara should try a little to understand that he can be like a spoilt brat when he feels ignored.If Akshara has managed to compromise for everyone that a little change of attitude towards Natik would go a long way .

At this time i feel sorry for Rajshri sara kuch kaar ke bhi still beti in problem .






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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 1:10pm | IP Logged
Why is it that people say that yes Naitik is like a child or his actions are childish, but that its okay and that Akshara should understand this and change.

Why is it always the female to change and adopt to her surroundings.  Why after getting married the men can always continue to be the same way and act like a spoiled brat and yet the poor wife is to be blamed for not understanding her husband when clearly he is acting like a 2 year old child who doesnt want to leave his mothers side.

He needs to grow up and be and start acting like a man. Getting married or getting your wife pregnant is not the only actions of a man, but to be understanding, loving, caring person  is what makes a man a man. Someone who grows in his married life with his wife, someone who understands that his wife is know with child and that she will be going through different mood changes and needs and wants.  Its someone who doesn't jump to stupid misunderstandings at a drop of a pin. Its someone who takes his wife a side and sits her down and explains his feelings to her and makes sure she understands him clearly with out hurting her or anyone else. He never did that at all.

You cannot expect your wife to be buy your side all the time day and night. That is unreasonable. A good healthy marriage needs the couple to be part for a day or a few hours at least. This way they do not get annoyed with each other and they love each other more when they do get the time to spend with one another.

He wasnt saying anything to his mom when they were taking all the time with this wife, and telling her what to eat and where to eat it and what to look at and all, but he is having a problem with his mother in law.


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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 11:28pm | IP Logged
No one is saying she needs to be like his shadow however, considering she more happy in the kitchen then she is with him that attitude is rather odd .Neither is it being stated that Natik is justified in his immaturity.
If she was spending her time other than doing housework then if she ignored him because of time constraints it would make more  sense ! Kaam kaam kaam is all the excuse she has?

Its a simple fact of life women compromise and adapt more after marriage - This serial is not addressing social issues of lack of compromise off in laws to the daughter in law - its a series showing how the DIL blends into them and that's what she has done.

Yes he should grow up BUT he wont   -he's still starving for attention .To stay adamant in your own little world is also wrong .If Akshara can change so much for everyone else cant she STAY THE SAME as she was before marriage for Natik ?
She needs to learn how to keep herself happy .

 

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Posted: 20 September 2011 at 5:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by MARHABAA

No one is saying she needs to be like his shadow however, considering she more happy in the kitchen then she is with him that attitude is rather odd .Neither is it being stated that Natik is justified in his immaturity.
If she was spending her time other than doing housework then if she ignored him because of time constraints it would make more  sense ! Kaam kaam kaam is all the excuse she has?

Its a simple fact of life women compromise and adapt more after marriage - This serial is not addressing social issues of lack of compromise off in laws to the daughter in law - its a series showing how the DIL blends into them and that's what she has done.

Yes he should grow up BUT he wont   -he's still starving for attention .To stay adamant in your own little world is also wrong .If Akshara can change so much for everyone else cant she STAY THE SAME as she was before marriage for Natik ?
She needs to learn how to keep herself happy .

 

the issue here is only one and that is, naitik doesn't welcome unwanted interference even frm his own family members when it comes to akshara and his life's decisions..he wud like to settle for only that much in which both he and his family are happy ...on the other hand, akshara lets everyone control her life in the name of respect & care of elders...she thinks it's just fine and naitik should also understand...then obviously there will be a huge difference of opinion on every single issue and finally, the marriage will start disintegrating ! i.e.  in real life , not here, bec. if they r told to bark at each other they will, tomorrow if it's their anniversary , they will again be back to giving surprises , making dvd's and projects on each other Dead 

therez no anwer to any "WHY" bec. it's the way of life in joint families in India ! our society is set up this way and it will take years and years to change...but i believe the current system is just fine...we're proud of our values Thumbs Up


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