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What about Ankur's dream?? (Page 9)

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Posted: 25 September 2011 at 5:53pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Angelbud

Originally posted by _mahi_

Originally posted by Angelbud

Originally posted by _mahi_

Originally posted by Angelbud

Originally posted by _mahi_

I loved reading all the replies here except SOME you know..LOL
I am glad that our Forum has sucha brilliant people who understand and have great POVs about the showEmbarrassed
your answers actually answered some of my questionsTongue
thanks to you allClap.. for being sucha wonderful membersBig smile
 
I dont know what to say about AnkurErmm.. I guess first of all,, everything happened so fast and Ankur was probably not ready and not matured enough to think about what is wrong and what is right.Confused
and i am sure, as other members stated previously, Marriage was not the only option for Ankur.. Cry
he definitely has some relatives and he could have sent Sandhya to their house for 2 years. Smile
 
well.. i hope CVs will get new ideas by reading your wonderful thread TanthyaBig smile
Keep it up dearThumbs Up
 


Please try to make sense! Are all those faces the different personalities you possess or just the confusion you feel reading this topic and of course watching DABH!Tongue
if my posts do not make sense to you then please go to a scientist and buy a new brain
dont bother to reply to my post
it was not meant for you
i seriously hate when people reply to my posts because they dont have anything else to do..
to be honest, you yourself are a stack of confusion.
dont try to be over smart.. coz you are not
n last thing i want to tell you.. go into real world and learn how to behave with others
 
 


Well this forum is a small slice of the real world my dear, a very valid fact that clearly you find difficult to adjust to! I come on here as I really enjoy it as well as my job as an actor which if you had bothered to read the introductions you would know!  Do we really need to hear what you "hate" that's rather backward is it not?

You mention being "confused" and that its like a "stack"?  Prey tell do you work shifting hey from a field during the day?  I thought this forum was about DABH not about being unkind and unfriendly!  We are all entitled to our opinions are we not! 

With regards to your "over smart" comment about me I feel that is rather unfair as well!  How could you possibly know what designer clothes I choose to wear anyway? We can all look or sound like farm hands can we mahi!

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bakwaaas..
chullu bhar paani mein doob kar marja..
dimaag ka pech kas kar aa toh baat karna mujhse
ullu ka patha..
 


Great, so join my fan club then!Big smile


Edited by _mahi_ - 25 September 2011 at 5:53pm

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Posted: 25 September 2011 at 6:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by _mahi_

Originally posted by Angelbud

Originally posted by _mahi_

Originally posted by Angelbud

Originally posted by _mahi_

Originally posted by Angelbud

Originally posted by _mahi_

I loved reading all the replies here except SOME you know..LOL
I am glad that our Forum has sucha brilliant people who understand and have great POVs about the showEmbarrassed
your answers actually answered some of my questionsTongue
thanks to you allClap.. for being sucha wonderful membersBig smile
 
I dont know what to say about AnkurErmm.. I guess first of all,, everything happened so fast and Ankur was probably not ready and not matured enough to think about what is wrong and what is right.Confused
and i am sure, as other members stated previously, Marriage was not the only option for Ankur.. Cry
he definitely has some relatives and he could have sent Sandhya to their house for 2 years. Smile
 
well.. i hope CVs will get new ideas by reading your wonderful thread TanthyaBig smile
Keep it up dearThumbs Up
 


Please try to make sense! Are all those faces the different personalities you possess or just the confusion you feel reading this topic and of course watching DABH!Tongue
if my posts do not make sense to you then please go to a scientist and buy a new brain
dont bother to reply to my post
it was not meant for you
i seriously hate when people reply to my posts because they dont have anything else to do..
to be honest, you yourself are a stack of confusion.
dont try to be over smart.. coz you are not
n last thing i want to tell you.. go into real world and learn how to behave with others
 
 


Well this forum is a small slice of the real world my dear, a very valid fact that clearly you find difficult to adjust to! I come on here as I really enjoy it as well as my job as an actor which if you had bothered to read the introductions you would know!  Do we really need to hear what you "hate" that's rather backward is it not?

You mention being "confused" and that its like a "stack"?  Prey tell do you work shifting hey from a field during the day?  I thought this forum was about DABH not about being unkind and unfriendly!  We are all entitled to our opinions are we not! 

With regards to your "over smart" comment about me I feel that is rather unfair as well!  How could you possibly know what designer clothes I choose to wear anyway? We can all look or sound like farm hands can we mahi!

Friends Now?Embarrassed
bakwaaas..
chullu bhar paani mein doob kar marja..
dimaag ka pech kas kar aa toh baat karna mujhse
ullu ka patha..
 


Great, so join my fan club then!Big smile


Dear that's not how you play cricket is it! Be nice now! Friends?Embarrassed

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Posted: 25 September 2011 at 10:09pm | IP Logged
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Mahi, you made my day.  I just could not stop laughing after seeing that emoticon.
 
This is such a wonderful thread.  I hope the discussions continue with many more members points of views.

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Posted: 26 September 2011 at 2:55am | IP Logged


Ohh, This thread is still running... Ohh..M so delighted girls..will reply  Soon ..

Thank You all for sharing ur views and hope to see many more such varied and incisive analysis n views Big smile

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Posted: 26 September 2011 at 3:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by JustJ

Originally posted by tanthya



Heyy My Lubbly Pals,


we have been going on and on about  how selfish, matlabi,khudgarz  Ankur is ?? we have derided him for not stopping over and allowing Sandhya  to fulfill her dreams ..But what about Ankur's dreams ?? ..Why r we not  looking at his dreams... hasn't he got a right to fulfill his own ..U may say not at the cost of Sandhy'a dream but then Can Sandhya  be allowed to fullfill her dreams at the cost fo Ankur's ??  Very good Q, i dont find him selfish , i find him practical , neither of them will be happy when one has to sacrifise their dreams for others , as they will never find happiness when they make their dream come true as they will have this nagging feeling of not letting the other one fulfill her or his...

Completely Agree, Jessi ..In way whether he sacrifices or she..This relationship  will be undergoing a sea change and will no longer be the same.


As Ankur so rightly pointed out , getting into UPSC  is no child's play..sandhya may or may not crack it in the first year , her dream is a distant hazy goal ..it is not tangible  whereas Ankur's dream is already being realized ..it is tangible ...would not it be realistic and practical for Ankur to pursue what already is in his  hands than something which may never happen ..     Again i agree, opportunities dont knock on ones door again and again , ankur may never get this chance again and he was so close to getting into it , sandya on other hand is determined , i get that she will be able to crack her exam but its not easy with the training and all and like said , it has a long way to go 


Another pertinent point that Ankur raised was  Sandhy'a dream after her Marriage .. sad but true..many girls have given up their careers to maintain   their family ..what if Sandhya is forced to do the same  [  there is a high probability of this as her choice is rather different ]..then would not Ankur's sacrifice  be a waste ..this will definitely lead to resentment in his bosom ..   This scene clearly justified and proved ankur as a practical guy rather than a selfish and i am glad they actually showed it in a thinkable manner, ppl hardly let their DIL;s to work and no one will be so willing to send their DIL to Police station for sure, since sandya will be more on morals which means transfers and all ,

YES!! Her unusual choice will be a obstacle in a conservative family and she will be ordered to resign from the job


There is another  option that CV's have completely neglected to consider/tackle  .. That is the option of becoming a hosteler or PG .. This way both can achieve  their dreams and ofc we will not be gettin the DB LOLLOL             wats DB ??????? i agree a hostel was a good choice since they hardly showed any relatives but again , this will bring the question of wat next after achieving ur dream ? i mean both will be happy but in the end , like ankur said sandya may not be allowed to work and he cannot keep his sister with him forever , in a small city like that

Db is Diya aur baati.. the way Snadhya and Suraj are supposed to be Big smile

Hey yaar, nice topic in this forum for a CHANGE LOL

Thank You Tongue

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Posted: 26 September 2011 at 3:43am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Tanu-

Great discussion there girls.. Except this 15 days thing Ankur is not really doing anything wrong.

Anyways, Sooraj and Sandhya are destined to be together... knowingly or unknowingly Ankur is finding her the best match any girl would ever get..



Thank you, Tanu..Do Join us Big smile ..

Yes, Ankur is getting a best match for her , the only hing is Sandhya has to realize it ..

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Posted: 26 September 2011 at 4:17am | IP Logged
Originally posted by karishma125

thnxxx for sharing ur viewzzz...Smile


My Pleasure, karishma Big smile

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Posted: 26 September 2011 at 4:23am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nayhaj

hes got every right to dream but he cant tread on his sisters dream to fulfill his..the only way isnt to get sandhya married...


I completely agree that Marriage is not the only way .. I just wish the Cv's had  explored other ways ..


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