Posted: 21 September 2011 at 10:05am | IP Logged
Originally posted by b2011
Thanks for the post tanthya.
I do not think Ankur is selfish. He is rather practical and whatever he said was correct but the only thing that does not gel well is now he is the only blood relative and support for Sandhya and him arranging the marriage in just 15 days. No sensible brother would do this. Things may go wrong with hasty marriages. It would be okay if the marriage is arranged in a family well known to them or a close relative but that is not the case here. Also, Ankur is not going to US for long, he said just two years, then why hurry. He can make some other arrangements like living with any relatives also.
I also thought Sandhya would offer to stay in PG or hostel. Donno whether they will present this idea in tomorrow's epi or not. But in Ankur's point of view, marriage would be the best solution for relieving his responsibilities fully.
I agree that marriages that are done in haste can end in disaster..But when someone is focussed on a single matter like Ankur is about leaving for the US, nothing else seems to matter..Mind becomes blurred in your own vision..15 days seems short but I know of marriages which are done and arranged in 7 days..
He seems to feel responsible for his sister and conveniently the only solution for him is marriage and absolve his responsibility..Most who go abroad never return..So his long term plan may be to remain abroad and not having responsibility back home, in this case Sandhya..
Tanths, these are what ifs only but opposite can also happen..As an elder brother, his moral duty should be his sister's welfare and not his convenience...Even if marriage is the solution then it should not come in expense of Sandhya's future...
Sorry dont make much sense...
EDIT: Its ages since i have replied to one of your posts...hehehehe feels good...a tonic to the heart and mind...
Edited by starlight123 - 21 September 2011 at 10:06am