Posted: 20 September 2011 at 1:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rose_Petal
My problem with Ankur fixing up Sandhiya's marriage isn't about it destroying her dreams. I just don't like the fact that he wants to get her married within two weeks! In this time he will have to find her a husband too...it would be different if the marriage had been set up earlier and now they were just going to carry out the rituals. But in the time he has (if this were in reality), how can he find a suitable person for her? Isn't it obvious to the groom's side that this this girl has become a burden for her family and so she's being dumped onto them? They can treat her as they want because she probably wont have a place to go after the marriage.
It would be easier to accept if he had tried to find a place for her to stay at like a hostel or relative's house but it didn't work out somehow. And this would be really selfless of Ankita if she could delay going abroad since there isn't any job ultimatum on her since her family got the visa for her. But I see how leaving two girls all by themselves may not be the best idea so this wouldn't be a top choice either. Ankur does have a good dilemma unfortunately. I wish he would at least talk about this with Sandhiya calmly and try to get her to see from his point of view instead of taking it all on himself and marrying her off.
It would depend on the type of family she gets, why will she be considered a burden.. She might even be considered a golden goose and treated like a Princess sincee she has a hot link to US ..
15 days is too less a time, I am not contesting it.. but I think one has to consider Ankur and his dreams too..when Sandhya can be so passionate about something which she has not achieved yet, why be censorious to Ankur, whose dream has happened and is in the process of breaking up due to Sandhya's obstinacy [ his POV]
Agree with u on the second para !!