Originally posted by: tanthya
Heyy My Lubbly Pals,
we have been going on and on about how selfish, matlabi,khudgarz Ankur is ?? we have derided him for not stopping over and allowing Sandhya to fulfill her dreams ..But what about Ankur's dreams ?? ..Why r we not looking at his dreams... hasn't he got a right to fulfill his own ..U may say not at the cost of Sandhy'a dream but then Can Sandhya be allowed to fullfill her dreams at the cost fo Ankur's ??
As Ankur so rightly pointed out , getting into UPSC is no child's play..sandhya may or may not crack it in the first year , her dream is a distant hazy goal ..it is not tangible whereas Ankur's dream is already being realized ..it is tangible ...would not it be realistic and practical for Ankur to pursue what already is in his hands than something which may never happen ..
Another pertinent point that Ankur raised was Sandhy'a dream after her Marriage .. sad but true..many girls have given up their careers to maintain their family ..what if Sandhya is forced to do the same [ there is a high probability of this as her choice is rather different ]..then would not Ankur's sacrifice be a waste ..this will definitely lead to resentment in his bosom ..
There is another option that CV's have completely neglected to consider/tackle .. That is the option of becoming a hosteler or PG .. This way both can achieve their dreams and ofc we will not be gettin the DB 😆😆
Di...agree with you...the only issue I have is the 15 day marriage ...No brother should force his little sister...just to fulfill his dreams...but why does he want her to get married? I mean Sandhya can start working and then continue studying...and as I have highlighted in your post..true...why cant she stay in a PG?
AS far as Ankur being selfish...well the only part made me 😡 was the 15 day issue...other wise going to US for his career...its his choice and right...he is not selfish if he wants to follow HIs dream...
But the its star plus...so 😆 😆
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