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Posted: 18 September 2011 at 7:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by smrth

Good one Sarita. You sum up in good balance, though tilted towards Naitik in the endWinkLOL, but objective there too- natural consequence of Akshara's heavily cliched portrayal so far. I agree that Cvs have laughably managed to bungle yet again (a spotless record!Evil Smile) They put wrong complaint in his mouthLOL...According to him his grouse is on the interference by RJ...but then why was he getting furious with Akshara?!Confused...Rj's culpability on Akshra's head! Ouch The original gripe was on Akshi ('you wanted to go along with 'ma'- bahane mat banaye' etc.) but looking in her eyes, he tries to take diversion route RJ!EmbarrassedLOL (hota he...hote he!EmbarrassedBig smile)

Joke aside, this time around I don't buy even original gripe. This is neither time nor serious interference ( IMO). He ought to have been happy for the fact that expectant mother is feeling comfortable (after initial hiccups) and in good frame.

Then I can't buy his stretched vilification either. He would never ignore so naively all the calls from his pregnant wife (he has been showed concerned and sensitive enough to act so thick). That was only Cvs inconsistent ploy on Naitik to unfold their brand of Mu.Dead Akshara's barrage was also below par...squirming at her counter bragging- especially her boast about adjustments and cheap comparison about time spent with G3 or Bma (it becomes cheap as she speaks and not the viewers!Tongue)...

On the positive side, unexpectedly they managed to show some beautiful bonding moments bet'n Mother and daughter.Clap A fortuitous consequence of underplayed scenes...and under act by actor RJ. Hina was good too...


TY Smrth! I try to put myself on both sides of the argument, a habit I inculcated once I got marriedWink Should I credit my spouse for this one, too? Actually, yes! Whenever I had some personality conflicts be it at work or at home, he would suggest I look at it from their perspective. As annoying as that sounds coz I felt I never got any support from him I realized he was right after allLOL It kind of grew on me & I now use it to understand these twisted characters who sometimes are far from reality...ROFL Kahi tho technique kaam aaya na?Wink


I wasn't trying to defend Naitik in this case; I seriously want him to get busy. As romantic as it may be to the kunwari's I do not find it pleasing to watch him hanging around the house complaining that she doesn't give him enough time or supporting her when every little thing goes wrong.


Naitik has too much time on his hands & the writer's should fix that first. Defending Akshara on every little thing isn't his job. Over major issues, yes! Anything goes wrong in the kitchen, he is right by her sideDead RB said to him, ghar mein koyi nahi hai, tho you stay homeShocked Why? She had a MC but can he prevent another one if he stays home? Confused


Too much time on your hands isn't a healthy mind. I know, whenever I have nothing better do, ghar mein jagda guaranteed & my hubby has pointed it out too...ROFL All the petty things you ignored previously look magnifiedLOL


I do not agree that Akshara isn't at fault here. This issue had reared it's ugly head before, why is it here again? Shouldn't she as a wife make sure that he doesn't feel left out? She has all the time in the world unlike most women who work both in & out of the house & are sometimes even the bread winners of the family. Yes, this is her moment & he should let her indulge, be it with her mom or her maayka. Yes, pregnancy plays havoc on your body but your mind is still functional from time to time...ROFL


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Charu - TY for a very heartfelt postHug I love how you personalize your post & relate it to an event in  your own lifeClap Such things are difficult to discuss but you do it with such grace & dignity Thumbs UpHug


To each his own but constructive criticism should not be considered  bashing. I consider your post an eye opener to those who think relationships are about balance & setting priorities. I am sure I have said it too, plenty of times but balancing & setting  priorities are no joke & are easier said then done. Personalities & circumstances dictate your priorities...Dead Most times especially those in joint families have little or no control over their prioritiesOuch We recently had a talk of ideal relationships, I wish it were that easy! Ok, enough talk on  idealism, balance, priorities, yada, yada, yada...Big smile


I agree with you, both families should stay out of a couples lifeThumbs Up I know their intentions are always to help but it causes more grief than help. Case in point RJ's visit to the S's. Having your mother stay with you at your sasural is a bad idea especially when you can hire help. MJ does everything, doesn't he? Girija, Ganeshi sab wahi tho haiConfused Chahe tho Dhaniya ko hi bula loLOL G3 ne manmmani ki aur sab maan gaye?Shocked


Your husband's family may be paupers & your parents multi-millionaires but in-laws will never hesitate to neecha dikofy your folksDeadDead That is the bitter truth!Ouch Yes, jamaisa-m-i-l relationship is mostly air tight, no room for misunderstanding unless kissi ki niyat kharab hoLOL


You said it better than I could by stating all the various instances when he defended his in-laws better than Akshara ever has. This reminded me of the one instance where Akshara let her mother get insulted at Varsha's godh bharai over Nandini's liesOuch Why support someone else's lies & have your mother humiliated that too in a bhari mehfil?Shocked If it were G3, she would take the blame for her but not for RJDead Ghar aake she should have exposed Nandini but she chose not to, kyun?Confused


There was really no reason for Naitik to be jealous of his m-i-l but looks like he is next on the chopping block? The next cause of MU will be Payal...LOL Maybe G3 will be jealous of Payal's visits again...ROFL Another yogini track on the way... Dead Maybe they should really call it yeh rishta MU kehlata hai...ROFL

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Posted: 18 September 2011 at 11:44am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by smrth

Good one Sarita. You sum up in good balance, though tilted towards Naitik in the endWinkLOL, but objective there too- natural consequence of Akshara's heavily cliched portrayal so far. I agree that Cvs have laughably managed to bungle yet again (a spotless record!Evil Smile) They put wrong complaint in his mouthLOL...According to him his grouse is on the interference by RJ...but then why was he getting furious with Akshara?!Confused...Rj's culpability on Akshra's head! Ouch The original gripe was on Akshi ('you wanted to go along with 'ma'- bahane mat banaye' etc.) but looking in her eyes, he tries to take diversion route RJ!EmbarrassedLOL (hota he...hote he!EmbarrassedBig smile)

Joke aside, this time around I don't buy even original gripe. This is neither time nor serious interference ( IMO). He ought to have been happy for the fact that expectant mother is feeling comfortable (after initial hiccups) and in good frame.

Then I can't buy his stretched vilification either. He would never ignore so naively all the calls from his pregnant wife (he has been showed concerned and sensitive enough to act so thick). That was only Cvs inconsistent ploy on Naitik to unfold their brand of Mu.Dead Akshara's barrage was also below par...squirming at her counter bragging- especially her boast about adjustments and cheap comparison about time spent with G3 or Bma (it becomes cheap as she speaks and not the viewers!Tongue)...

On the positive side, unexpectedly they managed to show some beautiful bonding moments bet'n Mother and daughter.Clap A fortuitous consequence of underplayed scenes...and under act by actor RJ. Hina was good too...


TY Smrth! I try to put myself on both sides of the argument, a habit I inculcated once I got marriedWink Should I credit my spouse for this one, too? Actually, yes! Whenever I had some personality conflicts be it at work or at home, he would suggest I look at it from their perspective. As annoying as that sounds coz I felt I never got any support from him I realized he was right after allLOL It kind of grew on me & I now use it to understand these twisted characters who sometimes are far from reality...ROFL Kahi tho technique kaam aaya na?Wink


I wasn't trying to defend Naitik in this case; I seriously want him to get busy. As romantic as it may be to the kunwari's I do not find it pleasing to watch him hanging around the house complaining that she doesn't give him enough time or supporting her when every little thing goes wrong.


Naitik has too much time on his hands & the writer's should fix that first. Defending Akshara on every little thing isn't his job. Over major issues, yes! Anything goes wrong in the kitchen, he is right by her sideDead RB said to him, ghar mein koyi nahi hai, tho you stay homeShocked Why? She had a MC but can he prevent another one if he stays home? Confused


Too much time on your hands isn't a healthy mind. I know, whenever I have nothing better do, ghar mein jagda guaranteed & my hubby has pointed it out too...ROFL All the petty things you ignored previously look magnifiedLOL


I do not agree that Akshara isn't at fault here. This issue had reared it's ugly head before, why is it here again? Shouldn't she as a wife make sure that he doesn't feel left out? She has all the time in the world unlike most women who work both in & out of the house & are sometimes even the bread winners of the family. Yes, this is her moment & he should let her indulge, be it with her mom or her maayka. Yes, pregnancy plays havoc on your body but your mind is still functional from time to time...ROFL

Yo Sari, The forum's advantage is these reflexive comparing of notes on how we are imbibing a casual watch (and largely mundane at that- but there is another resemblance- routine of life too is inherently repetitive to some extent, isn't it?)...I too try to visualize other side's perspective- but mostly towards bolstering my own!Tongue The luck smiled in form of an extremely comforting spouse ( a 'born facilitator') who is easily more popular in my own family then me. Against her I have no chance with my own mother or sister! The point is- we would immediately feel horribly bad, in case we would happen to hurt her feeling out of reckless or stingy behaviour on our own partOuch. The character Naitik is bound to rebound on this count and make amends with her.

Analyzing more on his standoffish behaviour to MIL...generally Jamais get along well with the MILs. The unease generally prevails bet'n FIL- SIL (some same sex dynamics like DIL- MIL?- but obvsly with inherently far lesser interaction) unless a good rapport had been built from the beginning (or later on) like Naitik- Vishambhar. Towards Rj too, he was always well disposed...There might have been an initial period of formality. (Somewhere I'd compared this particular relationship with Fritz.Darcy-Mrs. Bennet from pride and prejudice. Before you laugh at me in bringing in a classic to compare an arguably common script, the idea was only to cite a supposedly common template- assumption being its wide readability)...to continue on this premise, character Naitik had some etching of aristocratic reserve, but like in classic he was never in want of considerations to Rj...What now he was complaining was inconsistent prejudice to his MIL. It does appear petty. So yes, u r right he is spending too much time at home. But for a soap serial it's going to be a staple practice...And then he too might rebound with some redoubled amends with Mil -remember Jasoosi time reunion bet'n Mother-Daughter courtesy Jamaisa! Meantime, Cvs have provided us a tempest to stir our cup of coffee on IF!LOL

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Posted: 18 September 2011 at 10:43pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by smrth

Good one Sarita. You sum up in good balance, though tilted towards Naitik in the endWinkLOL, but objective there too- natural consequence of Akshara's heavily cliched portrayal so far. I agree that Cvs have laughably managed to bungle yet again (a spotless record!Evil Smile) They put wrong complaint in his mouthLOL...According to him his grouse is on the interference by RJ...but then why was he getting furious with Akshara?!Confused...Rj's culpability on Akshra's head! Ouch The original gripe was on Akshi ('you wanted to go along with 'ma'- bahane mat banaye' etc.) but looking in her eyes, he tries to take diversion route RJ!EmbarrassedLOL (hota he...hote he!EmbarrassedBig smile)

Joke aside, this time around I don't buy even original gripe. This is neither time nor serious interference ( IMO). He ought to have been happy for the fact that expectant mother is feeling comfortable (after initial hiccups) and in good frame.

Then I can't buy his stretched vilification either. He would never ignore so naively all the calls from his pregnant wife (he has been showed concerned and sensitive enough to act so thick). That was only Cvs inconsistent ploy on Naitik to unfold their brand of Mu.Dead Akshara's barrage was also below par...squirming at her counter bragging- especially her boast about adjustments and cheap comparison about time spent with G3 or Bma (it becomes cheap as she speaks and not the viewers!Tongue)...

On the positive side, unexpectedly they managed to show some beautiful bonding moments bet'n Mother and daughter.Clap A fortuitous consequence of underplayed scenes...and under act by actor RJ. Hina was good too...


TY Smrth! I try to put myself on both sides of the argument, a habit I inculcated once I got marriedWink Should I credit my spouse for this one, too? Actually, yes! Whenever I had some personality conflicts be it at work or at home, he would suggest I look at it from their perspective. As annoying as that sounds coz I felt I never got any support from him I realized he was right after allLOL It kind of grew on me & I now use it to understand these twisted characters who sometimes are far from reality...ROFL Kahi tho technique kaam aaya na?Wink


I wasn't trying to defend Naitik in this case; I seriously want him to get busy. As romantic as it may be to the kunwari's I do not find it pleasing to watch him hanging around the house complaining that she doesn't give him enough time or supporting her when every little thing goes wrong.


Naitik has too much time on his hands & the writer's should fix that first. Defending Akshara on every little thing isn't his job. Over major issues, yes! Anything goes wrong in the kitchen, he is right by her sideDead RB said to him, ghar mein koyi nahi hai, tho you stay homeShocked Why? She had a MC but can he prevent another one if he stays home? Confused


Too much time on your hands isn't a healthy mind. I know, whenever I have nothing better do, ghar mein jagda guaranteed & my hubby has pointed it out too...ROFL All the petty things you ignored previously look magnifiedLOL


I do not agree that Akshara isn't at fault here. This issue had reared it's ugly head before, why is it here again? Shouldn't she as a wife make sure that he doesn't feel left out? She has all the time in the world unlike most women who work both in & out of the house & are sometimes even the bread winners of the family. Yes, this is her moment & he should let her indulge, be it with her mom or her maayka. Yes, pregnancy plays havoc on your body but your mind is still functional from time to time...ROFL

Sari, i can't analyze anything from Akshara's perspective coz i'm very diff. from her...if i step in her shoes, the first thing i'll be thinkin of is "i cannot love my mil, at most respect her" LOL and then, if it's somebody's nature, it's for everyone...we are different with diff. types of ppl. but our basic nature is the same..so if akshara can show patience  with gayitri, nandini and bma , she can show a little bit with naitik also..everybody has their weak moments, many times we get frustrated for no reason and the only ppl. who we take out our frustration on our spouse or kids...i understand she'll be in trouble if she goes either way..idhar kuan udhar khai, mil ki baat maano toh pati naraz and vice versa..that's why i said that both parents must step back and let their children grow up ! let them experience every new thing on their own, devise their own conclusions , let them make mistakes and let them make amendments too ! when parents interfere too much, both the husband and wife r in delimma ab kya karein, n if it's like everyday (like it is in YR...whether it's gayitri or rajshri, doesn't make a difference) then one of them will blow off , saying nasty things to the other and again MU ! they r not spared either which way !  jitne log, utni baatein, utni confusion, utni adjustment, utni frustration...maayka ppl. should not be involved at any stage otherwise unko kuch bhi kehne mein 2 min. lagenge Dead in the past daddaji has done it, baisa and gayitri also...why lower their pride? in their house, everyone is a king, not elsewhere ! 

rajshri has always interfered more than what was required (remember she came to the clinic when akshara went for the check up ShockedLOL)! since the very beginning when akshara got married! so she should also stay in her limit in her daughter's sasural...if there was a problem once , when she gave permission (for going out) , she should ask them to take permission from bma ...naitik will listen to his parents and bma by default but outsider's view is an interference and as i said, it takes 2 mins to put the blame !  due to unfavorable circumstances, she was also blamed for what she never did...the remote control was in bma's hands, but howz naitik supposed to know? 

i agree Sari, it's better said than done..even i can't balance anything..i loved what anji said once "general lack of tact"..that's the case with me..toh i dun let my parents visit my place too often...but i'm helpless coz their jamaisa wants to LOL n then mil insecure..humari respect nahi karta unki karta hai LOLvicious cycle..i never expected maate to balance properly but imbalance bhi kahan hai? it's totally one sided...it's always gayitri/rajshri/bma/varsha, basically anyone, even payal or bindiya  but never naitik ! i know she loves naitik and acc. to her gives him ample time and attention , she too loves him and wants him,  then wherez she lacking? in the fixed mindset that she's adjusting too much, doing the needful while naitik is not doing anything ! he just wants everything his way...this attitude is wrong..she's misunderstanding naitik and undermining his emotions for her and for everyone else...whats lacking is that she failed to see how much naitik adjusted, how much he changed and what all he does for her ! she thinks compromises r being made only by me, not by naitik so he should be more  understanding !   


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Excellent post sari Clap….surely you hit the nail….now  I felt like pen down my thoughts.

This show is one of my most favourites. I truly adore this show and I'm fond of the actors and actresses in this show as well.

With that being assessed, I cannot deny that there is something that does bother me about this show.

One thing that bothers me about this show that what they actually want to show is it love after marriage? I don't think so they want to show us… Misunderstandings after marriage..Being married I also know that marriages are not always bed of roses but then again it's not always saga of misunderstandings, i feel. Relationships don't build up or ruin in a days' time, it needs time, emotions, bonding and so much more! Life becomes more meaningful only with solid relations.

And I guess in healthy relationship couples should support each other no matter what. When we do something wrong unintentionally, that's when it hurts the most. And in that dark hour, we need our loved one to stand with us no matter what. They may or may not agree with our decision or our action, but their stand should be with us always. That's true love. 

From the beginning of their marriage track, there is ONLY one issue,one is saying something and the other is opposing and then MU Unhappy

 In the beginning I didn't like naitik's behavior it was immature but now we can see lots of growth…But how about Akshi?? Why are the CVs showing Akshara like this... In the beginning of this show I thought she's intelligent & brave & can deal with situations accordingly... I never thought I would be complaining about Akshara one dayLOL she never understood what naitik is feeling and why?...becuase she's too engrossed in other work which she loves to do Angry

 I know akshara is not totally at fault..but she has always had issues understanding his point of view and his feelings Dead.  Even now when he's trying to be open with her and express himself all she does is taking his words totally wrong way Shocked. .  i agree to the words naitik said friday...both are not wrong..but actually for akshi...Agar gayatri ne kuch keh diya toh she can keep mum but not for naitik Ermm...why its always like that? Her heart might be in the right place, her mind is clearly not. She rushed into making decisions and jumping to conclusions Cry. Naitik is venting his frustration and i can sympathies . Naitik's reaction is not a wrong, he is trying to make Akshara understand, Yes but the way is saying is a bit too wrong. But the situation is like that. There are times, he did support Akshi and stood against the family

@charu….i always like to read your postBig smile & I don't think its bashing, we can call its criticizing & that too of CVS Thumbs Down nothing against characters as i said CVs showing extremes in characters but never balance.

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Posted: 18 September 2011 at 10:57pm | IP Logged
very wonderfully put in
 
I had the same opiinion while watching it
RJ was shown to be 'the' mother finally
 
akshi has many a time missed on what she should be exactly saying
so it wasnt new for me.
 
and rest all U have said it-------------I go by U

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Excellent post sari Clap'.surely you hit the nail'.now  I felt like pen down my thoughts.

This show is one of my most favourites. I truly adore this show and I'm fond of the actors and actresses in this show as well.

With that being assessed, I cannot deny that there is something that does bother me about this show.

One thing that bothers me about this show that what they actually want to show is it love after marriage? I don't think so they want to show us' Misunderstandings after marriage..Being married I also know that marriages are not always bed of roses but then again it's not always saga of misunderstandings, i feel. Relationships don't build up or ruin in a days' time, it needs time, emotions, bonding and so much more! Life becomes more meaningful only with solid relations.

And I guess in healthy relationship couples should support each other no matter what. When we do something wrong unintentionally, that's when it hurts the most. And in that dark hour, we need our loved one to stand with us no matter what. They may or may not agree with our decision or our action, but their stand should be with us always. That's true love. 

From the beginning of their marriage track, there is ONLY one issue,one is saying something and the other is opposing and then MU Unhappy

 In the beginning I didn't like naitik's behavior it was immature but now we can see lots of growth'But how about Akshi?? Why are the CVs showing Akshara like this... In the beginning of this show I thought she's intelligent & brave & can deal with situations accordingly... I never thought I would be complaining about Akshara one dayLOL she never understood what naitik is feeling and why?...becuase she's too engrossed in other work which she loves to do Angry

 I know akshara is not totally at fault..but she has always had issues understanding his point of view and his feelings Dead.  Even now when he's trying to be open with her and express himself all she does is taking his words totally wrong way Shocked. .  i agree to the words naitik said friday...both are not wrong..but actually for akshi...Agar gayatri ne kuch keh diya toh she can keep mum but not for naitik Ermm...why its always like that? Her heart might be in the right place, her mind is clearly not. She rushed into making decisions and jumping to conclusions Cry. Naitik is venting his frustration and i can sympathies . Naitik's reaction is not a wrong, he is trying to make Akshara understand, Yes but the way is saying is a bit too wrong. But the situation is like that. There are times, he did support Akshi and stood against the family

@charu'.i always like to read your postBig smile & I don't think its bashing, we can call its criticizing & that too of CVS Thumbs Down nothing against characters as i said CVs showing extremes in characters but never balance.


super like Clap thanks dear...i mentioned bashing coz i'm reading this word quite a lot of times n i think many do get offended..so i'll restrict my views to a few posts where i feel it's abs necessary..other than this, i dun wanna lose my friends coz of petty issues Ouch


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