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Posted: 17 September 2011 at 9:25am | IP Logged
Completely agree with you Madhavi Ben.Smile Akshi wants to send her mom home with respect and with a dignity that no one can reprimand her. RJ has come to lend a helping hand to Akshi in the absence of gayathri.
 
Girls will have emotional change  during pregnancy and they would anticipate the support of their affectionate mothers.
 
That is the ultimate reason why girls go to their home land for pregnancy. Naitik feels pangs of guilt for saying such harsh words. This is b/c of akshi's ignorance. However, such words of Naitik ruminate in akshi's mind.
 
Hope Naitik will start working towards these problems and aid akshi to come out of these dilemmas. Hope he does that!

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Posted: 17 September 2011 at 9:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ratriya

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i just want to ask that whether akshara sent rajshree for naitik happiness as she thought naitik dont like rajshree to stay in house or just to make him guilty
from now ownwards i will never hope anything from her.naitik loves akshara so  he is bound to accept his last position in her heart and brain.Dead
till now no reply to my questionCry
 
i didnt get the reason behind akshara asking rajshree to leave the house.is it because she cannot bear insult of her maa from naitik or was it for naitik happiness as she thought that  he doesnt want rajshee in house Confused


Sorry Rati, I am a late riser over the weekendWink Coming to your question; I think MB put it bestClap Akshara knows now that Naitik isn't happy with her mother's stay. She wants to protect both Naitik & RJ. Dono ki izzat is her izzat as a patni & beti.


She knows Naitik gusse mein kabhi bhi kuch bhi bol saktha hai. Uska dil saaf hai & he regrets it right after he says things but words once said cannot be taken back. RJ will forgive him for sure but why let it get that far? Also, now that both BM & she are feeling better why have her mother do her sasural ka seva, she is no maidDead If it's a nuclear family, it's ok but doing everybody else's seva, why should she? She has realised that Naitik isn't even appreciative of her effortsOuch


Naitik has been poorly portrayed in this case. In spite of their MU, he had helped her during the Nani/mamaji incident during their wedding. He forgave RJ for her jasoosi w/o even wanting to know the details. He has great respect for all elders. Whatever gripe he had, it's always been restricted to Akshara. Pata nahi yeh kya naya natak to show his disregard for eldersConfused I would just dismiss it as drama for tv...LOL

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Posted: 17 September 2011 at 9:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by --Sari--

Originally posted by ratriya

Originally posted by ratriya

i just want to ask that whether akshara sent rajshree for naitik happiness as she thought naitik dont like rajshree to stay in house or just to make him guilty
from now ownwards i will never hope anything from her.naitik loves akshara so  he is bound to accept his last position in her heart and brain.Dead
till now no reply to my questionCry
 
i didnt get the reason behind akshara asking rajshree to leave the house.is it because she cannot bear insult of her maa from naitik or was it for naitik happiness as she thought that  he doesnt want rajshee in house Confused


Sorry Rati, I am a late riser over the weekendWink Coming to your question; I think MB put it bestClap Akshara knows now that Naitik isn't happy with her mother's stay. She wants to protect both Naitik & RJ. Dono ki izzat is her izzat as a patni & beti.


She knows Naitik gusse mein kabhi bhi kuch bhi bol saktha hai. Uska dil saaf hai & he regrets it right after he says things but words once said cannot be taken back. RJ will forgive him for sure but why let it get that far? Also, now that both BM & she are feeling better why have her mother do her sasural ka seva, she is no maidDead If it's a nuclear family, it's ok but doing everybody else's seva, why should she? She has realised that Naitik isn't even appreciative of her effortsOuch


Naitik has been poorly portrayed in this case. In spite of their MU, he had helped her during the Nani/mamaji incident during their wedding. He forgave RJ for her jasoosi w/o even wanting to know the details. He has great respect for all elders. Whatever gripe he had, it's always been restricted to Akshara. Pata nahi yeh kya naya natak to show his disregard for eldersConfused I would just dismiss it as drama for tv...LOL
thanku for reply
i agree with you and mb both completely.Big smile
everytime naitik bring this issue of akshara's ignorance towards him it gets  diverted to another direction and in the end naitik only is blamed.if cvs are in no mind to end this matter from root as told by them in the 50year leap dream sequence then why they bring it again and again just to make naitik feel guilty and torture us.AngryDead


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Posted: 17 September 2011 at 10:12am | IP Logged
This is so true Sari di..i was ROTFL..LOL
What can i say everything i wanted to say you said,

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Posted: 17 September 2011 at 11:59am | IP Logged
TY Ashi...HugTumhe tho khush kar diya pur MB is a tough sell...ROFL Usse tho rishwat dena padega aur uski weaknesses tho hum jaante hai...Wink Akshi tho MB ki beti jaisi hai. Koyi bhi usse correct kare, MB bardash nahi karegiLOL Khud bhi correct nahi karthi...Silly

Though I like the one point which Naitik mentioned that he can share his feelings with only Akshara and not anyone else.

Good point, but Akshara by then was fuming mad & this fell on deaf ears. We all thought this whole issue was put to rest with Sneha's exit. Was it really? Naitik should lower his expectations & Akshi needs to meet him half way. Nahi tho what do you think life will be like once they have a baby?  We will have this track every time they run out of ideas which means daily...ShockedROFL


Would like to mention it again that Naitik is not at fault...Approve Akshara missed the point completely...Cry
Akshi should take a tip from her mom, she balances all her relationships & her husband tooClapGranted M's are not as khadus as S's. Vish is a gentle soul not as demanding as Naitik is. But Naitik pyaar bhi utne hi style se kartha haina?Embarrassed This is a golden opportunity for Akshi to shower her attention on Naitik kyunki ab utna kaam bhi nahi hai aur sabko waaris ke naam se nacha bhi sakthi hai. Fir bhi yeh problem kaise aagayi? Confused


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Posted: 17 September 2011 at 4:42pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by --Sari--

TY Ashi...HugTumhe tho khush kar diya pur MB is a tough sell...ROFL Usse tho rishwat dena padega aur uski weaknesses tho hum jaante hai...Wink jaisi hai. Koyi bhAkshi tho MB ki beti i usse correct kare, MB bardash nahi karegLOLi Khud bhi correct nahi karthi...Silly
Sari  i  am  sorry LOLab  akshi  ko  maine  kab  bigada  tha?saab  natik  ki  side  me  hai  to main  akshi  ka  sath  deti  hu  nahito  becahri  aakeli  rahegiCry. and  correct  karne  ki  baat  hai  to  main   kaha  sudharti  huLOL  to  mari  bati  ko  bhi  nahi  correct  karti.   hum  yane  MB  and  Akshi Jalebi  jaise  hai  kabhi  sudhrenge  nahiLOL. koshish  kar  ke  dekh  loLOL. but  one  imp. thing  is  jalebi  meethi  hoti  hai  WinkTongue  isi  liye  munna  khush  hota  haiWink

Though I like the one point which Naitik mentioned that he can share his feelings with only Akshara and not anyone else.

Good point, but Akshara by then was fuming mad & this fell on deaf ears. We all thought this whole issue was put to rest with Sneha's exit. Was it really? Naitik should lower his expectations & Akshi needs to meet him half way. Nahi tho what do you think life will be like once they have a baby?  We will have this track every time they run out of ideas which means daily...ShockedROFL
I  never  said  naitik  is  at  fault  i  think  he  is  100% correct  but  as  he  took  ma  ka  naam  akshi  ka  para  chadha  LOL. but  i  think  CV  never  show  good  communication  between  naksh  which  is  very  imp. for  marrige. hope  they  will  show  that  instade  of  this MUDead



Would like to mention it again that Naitik is not at fault...Approve Akshara missed the point completely...Cry
Akshi should take a tip from her mom, she balances all her relationships & her husband tooClapGranted M's are not as khadus as S's. Vish is a gentle soul not as demanding as Naitik is. But Naitik pyaar bhi utne hi style se kartha haina?Embarrassed This is a golden opportunity for Akshi to shower her attention on Naitik kyunki ab utna kaam bhi nahi hai aur sabko waaris ke naam se nacha bhi sakthi hai. Fir bhi yeh problem kaise aagayi? Confused

So  true  they  argu  but  the  main  point  stayed  asaidCry.  ab  CV  kab  hamari  baat  manenge? i  dont  know. but  in  real  life  its  not  like  that. which  is  good. and  Sari  i  am  happy  that  all  of  you  made  good  point  whithout  Bashinig  Clap so  i  am  happy  the  only  thing  i  liked  about  friday  that  they  show  both  were  correct  on  there  point. but  i  loved  Ma  beti  the  mostBig smile


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TY Ashi...HugTumhe tho khush kar diya pur MB is a tough sell...ROFL Usse tho rishwat dena padega aur uski weaknesses tho hum jaante hai...Wink Akshi tho MB ki beti jaisi hai. Koyi bhi usse correct kare, MB bardash nahi karegiLOL Khud bhi correct nahi karthi...Silly

Though I like the one point which Naitik mentioned that he can share his feelings with only Akshara and not anyone else.

Good point, but Akshara by then was fuming mad & this fell on deaf ears. We all thought this whole issue was put to rest with Sneha's exit. Was it really? Naitik should lower his expectations & Akshi needs to meet him half way. Nahi tho what do you think life will be like once they have a baby?  We will have this track every time they run out of ideas which means daily...ShockedROFL


Would like to mention it again that Naitik is not at fault...Approve Akshara missed the point completely...Cry
Akshi should take a tip from her mom, she balances all her relationships & her husband tooClapGranted M's are not as khadus as S's. Vish is a gentle soul not as demanding as Naitik is. But Naitik pyaar bhi utne hi style se kartha haina?Embarrassed This is a golden opportunity for Akshi to shower her attention on Naitik kyunki ab utna kaam bhi nahi hai aur sabko waaris ke naam se nacha bhi sakthi hai. Fir bhi yeh problem kaise aagayi? Confused

talking in general context Sari , i firmly believe that to maintain the respect and dignity of her parents, they must stay away from the affairs of her daughter's sasural...i'm saying this from my personal experience which was really bad n i dun wanna remember it ! i for once cud never balance anything bec. i was a little kid when i got married (not agewise by  maturitywise)...i didn't know anything abt mil tantrums and what is the right thing to do or say in every situation ! i even decided to leave my sasural leaving my new born baby with my hubby ! Cry i can't forget that day when i cried so much and asked my mom to leave (tht too when i had a c section n it was just a week) ... tht day i decided they're not gonna stay here for more than 1 night..thankfully, God was with me n my sis got married in the same city n they usually go to her place whenever they visit ! 

i'm really thankful to God that i stay 250 km away frm my maayka LOL otherwise i'll be never happy in my sasural...bec. MIL's get too insecure & jealous that her son and DIL r listening to bahu's parents and not me Shocked they will snatch away my children and poison their mind against me! hard reality Dead whenever my parents come over, i always have to hear this "pata nahi tumhe kya ho jaata hai jab tumhare mummy papa aate hai"..coming from a mature lady double of my age Dead whatever i do, she thinks humari alag khichdi pak rahi hai ! (somewhat similar to what was shown when gayitri saw her children doing pooja with M's during batwara phase)

i believe the secret to happy family life is that parents (of both the boy and the girl) must step back once their children get married ! interference of any kind from both the sides will hamper the development of a healthy husband wife relation (which is the case in YR) ! the line must be drawn (which akshara never understood and naitik ka point was just that...not to send rajshri away but draw a line b/w personal and family life) ..Akshara lets them treat her like a kid coz she acts like one always...naitik is not far behind, he's like a spoiled brat while akshara is a toddler...she never showed at any moment that she can or she want to do anything independently ! chahe khana hi ho Dead for that she needs her mum or mil to feed her ! how irritating will it look in real life...didn't everyone bash naitik for the same reason? for being over dependent on his mom for small things? if u want to be pampered, by all means, go to ur maayka and stay for as long as u n ur hubby want LOL  but ur mom is ur guest, not caretaker... the care of parents must be to a limit..woh koi bache nahi hai...what they show in YR is that whatever these bachas do, woh kabhi theek nahi hota..like my 6 yr old kid jo galti karti rehti hai Dead and elders get a chance to prove their point ke abhi bache hai Angry

In friday's epi, my fav. part was Vish giving the responsibility of the school to Varsha Clap M's were outstanding Clap the same ppl. r not able to understand the needs of a teenager Shocked same problem "bacha hai" Dead 

jamaisa-mil ka relation is usually very stable...bec. koi lena dena nahi hota unka LOL usually a doting husband respects his mil too bec. biwi ki ma hai bhai LOL anything said to the mil  will directly offend the wife Ouch i'll also dismss it as a stupid drama trick (yet another to show MU) coz Naitik has never been disrespectful of his MIL..infact he stood up for them when their daughter did not ! before marriage , he sorted out mamaji's issue, corrected his mamaji and kept up the izzat of ladkiwale, ignored Rajshri's jasoosi, argued with baisa for not behaving properly with akshara's nani, never let any blame come on his in laws  & akshara for borrowing money, not liking his family's decision to stay away frm ananya's namkaran (though he couldn't do anything coz he was not allowed to question), consoling his MIL when his mom accused her of interference (when they took akshara to the doc), supporting Rajshri when she said something about wud be jamaisa Nikhil...He did the needful while Akshara remained diplomatic to please her in laws ! she was unperturbed while Gayitri insulted her mum and family many times...bma was easily forgiven for lehsun pyaz...but wait a minute, these ladies said it on Rajshri's face while naitik only discussed a problem with his wife which existed b/w them !! n then, isn't this a humiliation in itself that she's letting her mum work like a maid in her house Dead when there r so many servants to cook, clean and take care of everybody's needs? Confused spending time point, didn't she spend 19+ plus years with her mom? weighed against a relation which is only 2 yrs old, it's anybody's guess which one needs more attention ! she's gonna spend the rest of her life with her husband, not her mum...the relation with her mum will remain as it is, nothing is gonna affect it but that's not the case with her relation with her husband..it's volatile and delicate in the initial phase. 

before someone says tht i'm bashing, i'll stop right here..i think i'll be more passive now coz tension mujhe bhi zyada hi ho rahi hai faltu mein Dead


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In friday's epi, my fav. part was Vish giving the responsibility of the school to Varsha Clap M's were outstanding Clap the same ppl. r not able to understand the needs of a teenager Shocked same problem "bacha hai" Dead 

jamaisa-mil ka relation is usually very stable...bec. koi lena dena nahi hota unka LOL usually a doting husband respects his mil too bec. biwi ki ma hai bhai LOL anything said to the mil  will directly offend the wife Ouch i'll also dismss it as a stupid drama trick (yet another to show MU) coz Naitik has never been disrespectful of his MIL..infact he stood up for them when their daughter did not ! before marriage , he sorted out mamaji's issue, corrected his mamaji and kept up the izzat of ladkiwale, ignored Rajshri's jasoosi, argued with baisa for not behaving properly with akshara's nani, never let any blame come on his in laws  & akshara for borrowing money, not liking his family's decision to stay away frm ananya's namkaran (though he couldn't do anything coz he was not allowed to question), consoling his MIL when his mom accused her of interference (when they took akshara to the doc), supporting Rajshri when she said something about wud be jamaisa Nikhil...He did the needful while Akshara remained diplomatic to please her in laws ! she was unperturbed while Gayitri insulted her mum and family many times...bma was easily forgiven for lehsun pyaz...but wait a minute, these ladies said it on Rajshri's face while naitik only discussed a problem with his wife which existed b/w them !! n then, isn't this a humiliation in itself that she's letting her mum work like a maid in her house Dead when there r so many servants to cook, clean and take care of everybody's needs? Confused spending time point, didn't she spend 19+ plus years with her mom? weighed against a relation which is only 2 yrs old, it's anybody's guess which one needs more attention ! she's gonna spend the rest of her life with her husband, not her mum...the relation with her mum will remain as it is, nothing is gonna affect it but that's not the case with her relation with her husband..it's volatile and delicate in the initial phase. 

before someone says tht i'm bashing, i'll stop right here..i think i'll be more passive now coz tension mujhe bhi zyada hi ho rahi hai faltu mein Dead

Hey Charu why would you feel tensed on your casual opinions...to sharply speak out the bluffs of a tale is snappy reflection not bashing- (a watch which IS taking good 30 minutes of our routine)...unless I am stepping on some sore toe (some untoward exchange) which I might have missed on my erratic presence here (and today is a handy leisure week end after a long time so with pleasure)- in my experience I've always found you listening my odd presence and posts here with mature respect and gainful reflections even though u might not be agreeing to some of my pro Akshara stanceSmile (and I do have a theory on why u r sharply critical of Akshi...other time if u allow me to pull some leg in friendly vein!Embarrassed)...now onto the business of a 'Forum'...

In fact many of the points you raised here makes good sense, but on Akshara I disagree on your '19 yrs time' take...Rj is here only out of circumstances. Akshi had not called her expressly. Moreover she'd be here hardly for a short duration- not forever. So why shouldn't Naitik be indulgent on some deprivation? Yes, his complaints about some improper intervention are valid but he can see the well meaning fuss and ignore it with a smile...LOL

I agree on stupid drama trick on 'Naitik's portrayal' in this round of Mu. It goes in direct reversal to what has been showed generally.Ouch He has been always deferential and fairly sensitive on his in-law relations. All the examples you nerrated, plus what had struck me most on this character's sensitivity was his dignified behaviour towards them at the time of Nandini Mu. When he went to Maheshwaris to bring back Akshara for Mahashivratri celebrations ( Akshara was not there somehow), Shaurya had taken left and right square of this Jamaisa. His pride was mortified. But when he returned to SS, he silently covered for them with chivalry, not making them offenders in the eyes of his elders. This character's base fabric bearing towards elders is expended in the current track. But that is what they always doAngry...right? Sometimes with him sometimes with her...

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