Posted: 19 September 2011 at 7:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Trivini
Thanks for all the responses to my post. I really enjoying hearing everyone's opinions.
Edabella: I understand your point about the CV's maybe wanting a track that's different from the usual track of a daughter-in-law living at her husband's parents house. I think there's merit in a couple standing on their own. In Runjhun's case however, I think she missed having her parent's love and she keeps looking for that from her uncles and aunts but sadly she may never find it in them. I do think that she has a much better chance of finding that love in her parent's-in-law. Guddu's father and mother both liked her immediately so I think they will love and accept her as a daughter.
Azuria: I agree that Gunjun have gone through a lot and it will take time for them to focus on reconcilation with jG's parents but I also think it should be a bigger priority than constantly worrying about people who care only for themselves. I also think that since Runjhun feels that close to her family she should want Guddu a similar experience for her husband.
Simran: I like what you posted about G's parents disappearing once his mother was transferred to another hospital. It's strange that there was never any mention of them since that. Are we to assume G never thinks about his mother who he sacrificed so much to try and save? That doesn't fit with his characther.
Nishersal: About Runjhun thinking she has to fix everyone's problem, I think particularly in the case of her relatives she feels she owes them her life because they supposedly looked after her after her parents died. I think they did a good job of brainwashing her into believing that serving them was and is due compensation for theier favour. My fear is that this feeling of indebtedness to them is what will drive a wedge between her and Guddu. I just home Amma can make her understand where her loyalty should be.
Again thanks for all the responses and continue enjoying the show.
at bold , i just dont know what more can amma say or do she hasnt already. surely it has been a few times in recent episodes that she has drilled into her about her continuing loyalty towards m&m. so if R wants to continue to defy amma then that is just plain silly