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Concern about Runjhun

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Posted: 16 September 2011 at 11:00am | IP Logged
There's something that concerns me about Runjhun. Why isn't she concerned about going to her parents-in-law's house? Isn't that the custom?

As far as I can tell Guddu seems to be an only child. When they showed his mother in the hospital we didn't see or hear anything about any other chidlren so I think that means he is the only support his parents have. Given Guddu's love for his mother and her love for him I think Runjhun should be trying to help Guddu reconcile with his father, especially for his mother's sake.

Runjhun thinks a lot about her own family, she even got upset with Guddu at one point for not wanting to live at Pandey Niwas. She thinks about her role as niece and grand-daughter but maybe it's time she thought about her role as a daughter-in-law.

Also if Runjhun went to her sasural it wouldn't be so easy for her uncles and aunts to try and manipulate her so she really should go to her parents-in-law's house.

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Posted: 17 September 2011 at 5:51am | IP Logged
Inknow that i am very irritating person to point out the time line.
First Guddu married her with deception..
2 he was not keen on keeping the marriage. She got him to stay at PN for 30 days and then they moved to their own place with Runjhun doubting Guddu. Thats about three weeks and a litte more. During this time Runjhun is occupied with dealing with Guddu in one way or other. In the past month she has undergone doubt, upay to save her husband. fire in the house and reminders from her mama mami that she is harming them by living away from them.Its two days since the fire and the auction is there. I dont think that she or Guddu have had the peace and time to really plan or think about Guddus parents let alone reconciling and going to them.

And as per the story development now Guddu has to work day and night to payoff all the money he has borrowed. No I dont think that reconciling is in the near offing.

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Posted: 18 September 2011 at 5:25am | IP Logged
@ T- nice post.Guddu's missing parents are on my mind too.
@Az -agree with you for your reasons but I find it very strange & uncharacteristic of    both Guddu& RJ for not to have given any thought at all for his sick Mom.Rj is very caring & Guddu loved his Mom enough to marry his then enemy for money, so atleast a phone call or some mention of his parents is expected IMO.G did lot of things he promised his Mom(turning his life around,becoming good etc I guess) ,when he visited her in the hospital & now that he has achieved all that, he should be shown making some efforts to atleast reach out to his Mom.
The couple being so oblivious of a sick woman dying/getting better (don't know) for so long seems very odd to me. Don't people share with their parents if they buy a car/ are planning to buy a house? Especially,knowing such news would make someone happy & help in recovery?



Edited by simran_singh_24 - 18 September 2011 at 5:32am

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Posted: 18 September 2011 at 8:21pm | IP Logged
@ Trivini- I have mixed feelings about what u said in this topic post.

Although I do think it's quite strange that us viewers have not even seen Gunjhun being in contact through any means regarding his parents for quite a while, I really don't care much about her living in her parents-in-law's house.  Seeing either Gunjhun living in PN or seeing Gunjhun live in their own house (live-in son-in-law & the a couple living in their own house) these two situations are rare to see on a Zee serial.  In real life, the live-in-son-in-law is the less common situation but it's not like this situation never takes place in real life & this concept is a fresh one when lookin' at both real life & Indian tv.  In "Pavitra Rishta", Manav & Archana were living in their own house for some time but then they went back to living in his parents' house.  Now if in "Bhagonwali", Gunjhun ends up moving into Guddu's parents' house, well BBAT will be like most Zee serials in terms of where the couple live post marriage.  

I agree that if Runjhun lived w/her in-laws, it most probably would be harder for her M & M's to manipulate her & this is typical to see on a Zee serial- the girl living in her parents-in-law's house  but there may be a good reason as to why the CV's want Gunjhun to go back to PN (I'm assuming they're gonna start livin' there real soon).  I have a feeling the M & M's will eventually change when it comes to both Guddu & Runjhun.  I'm assuming not all 6 of them will change at the same time though.  In a way, there's more of a chance the M & M's will change if Gunjhun starts livin' in PN.     

Hopefully Guddu's parents will come back into the picture.  It won't look good if they never show upOuch.  The bad relationship that Guddu has with his dad is still unresolved & it would be nice to see this get mended at some point on the show.  Guddu's parents are used to him being away from them & not hearing from him- this might be part of the reason as to why we aren't seeing them much & hearing from them much as well but it makes sense to see & hear from them more post them finding out about Guddu marrying Runjhun.  Runjhun might end up getting pregnant soon so it would make sense to show Guddu's parents regarding their future grandchild.                        


Edited by edabella - 18 September 2011 at 10:55pm

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Posted: 18 September 2011 at 8:34pm | IP Logged
I believe this track will be shown in time. Right now i guess the cv's are occupied with other ideas but certainly they will head down this track one day.

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 6:15am | IP Logged
I think I'm more concerned about Runjhun's feeling that apparently she alone can fix other people's problems. She used to neglect herself, now it seems that Guddu is also to be sacrificed on this particular alter.
 
Runjhun needs to understand that no matter what she does she will never get the love that she craves from her aunts and uncles.

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 8:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nishersal

I think I'm more concerned about Runjhun's feeling that apparently she alone can fix other people's problems. She used to neglect herself, now it seems that Guddu is also to be sacrificed on this particular alter.
 
Runjhun needs to understand that no matter what she does she will never get the love that she craves from her aunts and uncles.


so true..and I am getting tired of runjhuns character being trashed..yet again..

what happened to her lecture to m&m's after the fire episode??..

why has that been brushed under the carpet??..Angry

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Posted: 19 September 2011 at 9:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bhavni88

Originally posted by nishersal

I think I'm more concerned about Runjhun's feeling that apparently she alone can fix other people's problems. She used to neglect herself, now it seems that Guddu is also to be sacrificed on this particular alter.
 
Runjhun needs to understand that no matter what she does she will never get the love that she craves from her aunts and uncles.


so true..and I am getting tired of runjhuns character being trashed..yet again..

what happened to her lecture to m&m's after the fire episode??..

why has that been brushed under the carpet??..Angry
 
seems like the cv's "painted" over it with the repairs

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