Posted: 18 September 2011 at 5:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by dhruvie05
Originally posted by azuria
Well all throught this serial I have had a feeling that Runjhun who has been solely brought by amma sees herself in the role of the matriarch of the family in spirit not in age or position. That was one of the reasons why she was taking care of everything in the PN. Her mama mami made her work hard and was bad towards her but she putting herself in place of amma a caretaker always forgave them. She is grown that way and took responsibility of them that is why they turn to her all the time and she step up to help them. On top of them she is still good at heart.
Runjhun was taking care of her mama mamis because she always felt indebted towards them for having brought her up since childhood, supposedly in place of her own parents, although that does not hold true. Amma has solely brought her up and given her the parental love and protection. The M&Ms have never, ever shown any kindness or compassion or the remotest form of affection towards her, except for their own selfish motives. They turn to her for their own selfish interests and after they found out, for her bhaag.
It cannot be denied that these mama mamis were responsible in creating a hoopla of the "touch" situation, by gathering the whole town and especially the Dixits, and instigating talks about her "badnaami". How can one forget undergoing extreme torture in the form of being tied up by chain and locked inside a room for days, being tortured by their face being drowned in water, Amma almost being a victim of poisoning in the hands of the evil mamis, not to mention the unending abuse and harrassment on a daily basis, and now burning her husbands-their house-and destroying all their dreams. While I admire her for her loving nature and generosity, forgive me if I cannot relate to the ever-forgiving heart of hers after having endured all this torture throughout her life.
Accepted that Guddu was a bad seed. Also accepted that he harrassed her a lottt during his time. But he also acknowledged everything, and apologized for all his bad deeds. He changed himself for her. He became her protector and guardian, and gave her the unconditional love that she has lacked thru' her entire life.
Remember he is still an outsider, whereas the mamas were her own blood, the M&Ms her own family who never treated her as their own.
Runjun always reminds Gudduji 'we are not like them'.If they had done wrong with them they will pay for their sin,we must not be like them...