Joined: 14 August 2011
Before looking at the ways guys can attract girls, let's look at what does not work.
You have given away your power to the girl, when you become obsessed with her. This would be a sign of low confidence and would lower her interest level in you.
Most guys who lose out with girls are confused about what they did wrong. They were nice, attentive to her needs, constantly caring and yet she left them. It looks unfair but is it?
If you are being really nice to her, there is a hidden motive behind it is there not? You want to get intimate with her and want her to love you. This looks manipulative to girls and that's why they get turned off.
Keep these simple pointers in mind and you will never face rejection again. The number of girls you end up attracting will blow your mind.
Act like you already know her - Don't act like a stranger, make her feel comfortable as if you both have known each other for several years.
Be completely detached to the outcome - Most guys approach girls with the purpose of getting something, like a date or her phone number. It doesn't work that way because you immediately come off as being manipulative. If things go right, you can ask for her number and she would be more than willing to give it to you.
Never place a girl on a pedestal - Don't idolize girls or their beauty. Remember that its just skin deep. She has the same problems and eccentricities that all human being have, she is not from a different planet. There are hundreds of girls like her around so she is not even unique. When you are not in awe of her, it will be easy for you to talk without getting tongue tied.
Joined: 31 August 2007
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