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Posted: 19 August 2011 at 1:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

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most women understand men pretty well.

haha! if only! that has got to be the biggest lie ever.LOL


Nah its completely true. Men do have the emotional range of a teaspoon. They have two emotions. Hungry and horny. In both cases you feed them. Simple.



lol! that may be true. those two things certainly do govern men. but they are not all that readable either. they can at times be...unreasonable, for the lack of a better word.LOL


Ladies are often quite lively and keep chattering away, sometimes it may seem petty but who cares it is fun at times; unless they are fuming.LOL


ladies don't chatter for nothing. we like to have conversations because we feel like that is what brings the two people in a relationship closer. it brings intimacy! u know about each other more. but it seems like "chatter" to men because they bond with their partners differently. they don't bond through conversations. they bond through activities. men bond when they do activities together and stuff. they don't understand the whole "bonding while talking" business.  we both have different ways of getting to know each other. and men claiming that women chatter for nothing and they are annoying while they do so is unreasonable. they are only doing it to get close to you and understand you better.

lol summerji. even when they are fuming, they prefer to talk/yell rather than use fists and break each other's noses. why? same reason. they like to resolve issues by talking, which is something men just never understand. they won't cuz they view conversation in a whole different light compared to women.

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Posted: 20 August 2011 at 3:53am | IP Logged
Well said rapier LOL besides, it takes some brains to be able to chat. You got to have some material to talk about. Those who dont cannot carry on any conversation.

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Posted: 20 August 2011 at 4:49am | IP Logged

neither can be generalised.

 
There are men who are emotional , sensitive and understand woman  and still wont be as talkative.   For most men it is no big deal.  
 
 
Not all women understand men.   Many women are just focussed on putting across their point , hence the talk of convincing,  which naturally  wont go through men, because they are already done with the issue and moved on to another mentally.
 
 
Woman  needs emotional outlet for stress. 
 
man needs physical activity to relieve stress,  be it anything   physical intimacy,  exercise, just walking, ,  decluttering the office, shredding.  likewise.  Physical intimacy without any talking with their  woman is actually  the time of emotional bonding to them.
 
 
interesting topic by the way,  the discussion on men and women can never end.


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Posted: 20 August 2011 at 12:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by zorrro

Well said rapier LOL besides, it takes some brains to be able to chat. You got to have some material to talk about. Those who dont cannot carry on any conversation.


LOL i didn't mean to say that men don't have conversations cuz they don't have brains. it's just they use conversations for a different purpose. they use it to get things done rather than bond. it's just a communication barrier between the two sexes. you can't do anything about it. however, both sexes can understand that such a barrier exists and be a bit more understanding towards their partners.WinkLOL
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Posted: 21 August 2011 at 10:44pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rapier


ladies don't chatter for nothing. we like to have conversations because we feel like that is what brings the two people in a relationship closer. it brings intimacy! u know about each other more. but it seems like "chatter" to men because they bond with their partners differently. they don't bond through conversations. they bond through activities. men bond when they do activities together and stuff. they don't understand the whole "bonding while talking" business.  we both have different ways of getting to know each other. and men claiming that women chatter for nothing and they are annoying while they do so is unreasonable. they are only doing it to get close to you and understand you better.

lol summerji. even when they are fuming, they prefer to talk/yell rather than use fists and break each other's noses. why? same reason. they like to resolve issues by talking, which is something men just never understand. they won't cuz they view conversation in a whole different light compared to women.
 
So woman bond through conversations and men bond over a jug of beer.LOL Men and women bond over a glass of wine.
 
Yep a lady may say the nastiest things or complain about someone, but when she meets them she smiles and talks to them as if nothing happened.
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Posted: 21 August 2011 at 10:50pm | IP Logged
Came across how a lady's brains keep working
 
 

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Posted: 22 August 2011 at 2:17am | IP Logged
^^LOL there is nothing wrong with having an organized mind. sure, there is a lot going on. but it still has a method and a process to it. Wink
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Posted: 22 August 2011 at 2:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Summer3

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ladies don't chatter for nothing. we like to have conversations because we feel like that is what brings the two people in a relationship closer. it brings intimacy! u know about each other more. but it seems like "chatter" to men because they bond with their partners differently. they don't bond through conversations. they bond through activities. men bond when they do activities together and stuff. they don't understand the whole "bonding while talking" business.  we both have different ways of getting to know each other. and men claiming that women chatter for nothing and they are annoying while they do so is unreasonable. they are only doing it to get close to you and understand you better.

lol summerji. even when they are fuming, they prefer to talk/yell rather than use fists and break each other's noses. why? same reason. they like to resolve issues by talking, which is something men just never understand. they won't cuz they view conversation in a whole different light compared to women.
 
So woman bond through conversations and men bond over a jug of beer.LOL Men and women bond over a glass of wine.
 
Yep a lady may say the nastiest things or complain about someone, but when she meets them she smiles and talks to them as if nothing happened.


ahh! but are women the only ones who do it? i assume it's safe to say that both sexes talk behind people's backs. that's a quality u cannot only attribute to women. it's human nature.Wink

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