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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: zorrro

^^The two should have signed a sort of pre nuptials equivalent ..before romancing 😆


The man was blinded by love. Love cannot be forced and if there is no chemistry then nothing works.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: P1nk

See what I've noticed in men is that when they argue they don't think with an open mind but draw conclusions very quickly, why why why???


If men had an open mind, their brains would probably pop off. 
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: Summer3



Ladies are often quite lively and keep chattering away, sometimes it may seem petty but who cares it is fun at times; unless they are fuming.😆



ladies don't chatter for nothing. we like to have conversations because we feel like that is what brings the two people in a relationship closer. it brings intimacy! u know about each other more. but it seems like "chatter" to men because they bond with their partners differently. they don't bond through conversations. they bond through activities. men bond when they do activities together and stuff. they don't understand the whole "bonding while talking" business.  we both have different ways of getting to know each other. and men claiming that women chatter for nothing and they are annoying while they do so is unreasonable. they are only doing it to get close to you and understand you better.

lol summerji. even when they are fuming, they prefer to talk/yell rather than use fists and break each other's noses. why? same reason. they like to resolve issues by talking, which is something men just never understand. they won't cuz they view conversation in a whole different light compared to women.
Posted: 12 years ago
Well said rapier 😆 besides, it takes some brains to be able to chat. You got to have some material to talk about. Those who dont cannot carry on any conversation.
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Posted: 12 years ago

neither can be generalised.

 
There are men who are emotional , sensitive and understand woman  and still wont be as talkative.   For most men it is no big deal.  
 
 
Not all women understand men.   Many women are just focussed on putting across their point , hence the talk of convincing,  which naturally  wont go through men, because they are already done with the issue and moved on to another mentally.
 
 
Woman  needs emotional outlet for stress. 
 
man needs physical activity to relieve stress,  be it anything   physical intimacy,  exercise, just walking, ,  decluttering the office, shredding.  likewise.  Physical intimacy without any talking with their  woman is actually  the time of emotional bonding to them.
 
 
interesting topic by the way,  the discussion on men and women can never end.
Edited by kavyasam - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: zorrro

Well said rapier 😆 besides, it takes some brains to be able to chat. You got to have some material to talk about. Those who dont cannot carry on any conversation.



😆 i didn't mean to say that men don't have conversations cuz they don't have brains. it's just they use conversations for a different purpose. they use it to get things done rather than bond. it's just a communication barrier between the two sexes. you can't do anything about it. however, both sexes can understand that such a barrier exists and be a bit more understanding towards their partners.😉😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: Rapier


ladies don't chatter for nothing. we like to have conversations because we feel like that is what brings the two people in a relationship closer. it brings intimacy! u know about each other more. but it seems like "chatter" to men because they bond with their partners differently. they don't bond through conversations. they bond through activities. men bond when they do activities together and stuff. they don't understand the whole "bonding while talking" business.  we both have different ways of getting to know each other. and men claiming that women chatter for nothing and they are annoying while they do so is unreasonable. they are only doing it to get close to you and understand you better.

lol summerji. even when they are fuming, they prefer to talk/yell rather than use fists and break each other's noses. why? same reason. they like to resolve issues by talking, which is something men just never understand. they won't cuz they view conversation in a whole different light compared to women.

 
So woman bond through conversations and men bond over a jug of beer.😆 Men and women bond over a glass of wine.
 
Yep a lady may say the nastiest things or complain about someone, but when she meets them she smiles and talks to them as if nothing happened.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Came across how a lady's brains keep working
 
 
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Posted: 12 years ago
^^😆 there is nothing wrong with having an organized mind. sure, there is a lot going on. but it still has a method and a process to it. 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
 
So woman bond through conversations and men bond over a jug of beer.😆 Men and women bond over a glass of wine.
 
Yep a lady may say the nastiest things or complain about someone, but when she meets them she smiles and talks to them as if nothing happened.



ahh! but are women the only ones who do it? i assume it's safe to say that both sexes talk behind people's backs. that's a quality u cannot only attribute to women. it's human nature.😉