There are two types of relationships --
one is relationships born of lack and
the other is relationships born of abundance.
The former is born of one's own sense of lackful emotions - insecurity, hurt etc. etc. where two people see each other as incomplete and cling to the other person because they perceive that the other person will complete them. This is neediness.
The latter is born of joy - where two people who are already complete are already joyful by themselves, and come together to double their joy. This is sachha pyar.
Those who say Jagya Gauri pyar is saccha pyar - which do you think JG relationship is? Is it born of lack or is it born of abundance?