This content was originally posted by: tanvismilepersonaly fr me mariage is nt like joke wer u change partners.one needs to keep love n respect alive.at least try ur best to keep ur comitment.with respect jaan mariage,j was made to commit in a relation at 8.2 people made to sleep with each other.at 18 they r expectd to gv birth to children,wen u face real world u realse they r just burden.love is imp in mariage ,without love its useles to continue it bt love shuld nt be turned into a joke.if one continuosly keep changing partners then in name of love then is it right.so since j took comitment,left his family fr her i expect 2 b with her.
Jagya and Anandi were married whe he was 10 and she was 8. I don't consider it marriage too...but when Anandi returned back home she was 18 and he was 20. I have read posts that says people would have accepted JAAN marriage inspite of being arranged and done without love becoz it is was done in adulthood...Why is the 1.5 years of happy married life of JAAN brushed under the carpet??? I never understand that...
Lets assume JAAN were never married. Jagya met Anandi at 18 in village, loved her, had physical relation with her. he was her boyfriend. Then he goes to the city and fell for Gauri...How does that become right... If the argument for J sticking on to G is because he left his family for her then
why can't J stick with any other woman if he decides to leave his family and Gauri for the new girl...
Why can't the new girl have the rights on Jagya, because Jagya loves her and not Gauri anymore...
Why can't jagya justify his move to anew girl by saying that his attachment to Gauri was the sudden temptation for new things in new world?
I don't think 21 years marks maturity and adulthood. Some don't get maturity even at the age of 40 and jagya falls in that category...
Ignoring the child marriage and forgetting Anandi being his wife, I consider Jagya's behaviour ifedility to his girl friend of 1.5 years with whom he has shared mental and physical relationship...If aborting that is considered ok because he fell in love with gauri, then it is completely ok for Jagya to dump Gauri if he falls in love again.
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