Ahem is right... - Page 2

I have to agree with Seeta, I have seen abused people and they are not stupid, they try to make things work. And at a certain point they say enough is enough. 

I agree with you, Ahem is incapable of loving anyone and yes Gopi makes it hard but he should try to understand the situation, he's seen the way Gopi acts around Rashi and he knows what she's like but he doesn't try to help or support her, he picks on her, the one person he knows won't speak up or talk back to him and he wonders why she follows people blindly, she's love starved and when he shouts at her it makes it worse

 

@Seeta : please do not insult 5 yr olds  or less by comparing Gopi's intellect with them.  My 3 yr old niece is much smarter than Gopi.  She competes with her 5 yr old sis!!

I think Gopi's character is just plain stupid ...

... but honestly, different people react to abuse in different ways ... some become stronger and tougher ... others become even more scared and meek ... more "sehma" hua ...


And that is why i never liked Koki with Gopi ... Alot of people give three cheers to koki whenever she puts down rashi ... but her insulting rashi does NOT help Gopi ... This tough love strategy will not work with Gopi ...

Somebody like Hetal can give Gopi more confidence and self worth than the constant verbal abuse by koki ... Gopi doesn't understand with loud words and anger but gentle encouragement from hetal/ jigar, and she blossoms

Koki's love with Gopi is conditional on Gopi never making a mistake and ALWAYS doing what Koki wants ... I love hetal's conversations with Gopi ... But koki keeps sidelining hetal with the "meri gopi vahu" nonsense

... bottom line ... Gopi needs LOVE and softness not harsh punishments

Yes Kokila's love is conditional, it's like hat with Kinjal, they still have not reconciled, with Gopi, Gopi has to keep proving that she is better then others like Rashi, with Aham too, if he doesn't do what she wants too. 

All of the characters on this show are getting on  my nerves.  No one stands up for anyone or anything.  The only characters with any humanity and likability are Hetal and Jigar.  Jigar should be with Gopi.  He would help her and understand her.  He gets no attention from Rashi.  And poor Rashi, even when she tries hard and does do something good, Kokila is going to find fault with it...on purpose.  Gopi is pathetic.  But Ahem...I understand he was forced into a marriage he didn't want and I can understand that he is bitter about that!  But he should be mad at his mother, not Gopi.  And even if he doesn't love Gopi, can't he at least be human?  He treats her worse than anyone would treat a dog.  He calls her names and shouts.  It is just cruel.  And his relationship with his mother borders on perverted.  No man should be that close or dominated that much by their mother.  I need character revisions in all of these people.