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Posted: 19 July 2011 at 7:25pm | IP Logged
Yesterday's episode showcased the differences of Rama and Priya as well as their cute moments together when they agreed on minor points.
Ram must have nearly got a heart attack seeing clutter and mess of Priya's room, an affliction he soon needs to get over.
 
The proprietorship of his room is one of the many things he needs to relenquish.
It was like a room with a view. A room that contrasted the nature of Ram and Priya very well, their organised way, their personal touches. through the scene I cldn't help imagine ram's room too.
 
The stark,dark coloured room so much reflecting Ram's personality was diametrically opposite to Priya's which was bright and cheerful. It was one shared by her siblings too, but definitely having her own touch. 
 
The end of the scene dialogue said it all!! " Kamra share karne mein aapko thakleef hai. Aur hum yahan zindhagi share karne ki baat karrahen hain". Wonderful lines that really hit Ram; the enormity of the situation he was getting into; a wake up call for him about what marriage really is.
 
This room scene beautifully potrayed what  marriage is really for a woman. Leaving her establised roots, getting uprooted to grow and adjust in totally different environment and find strong footing.
 
A change of room, a house, a surname and even a life is not always easy for a woman.But its the norm and that which is deeply ingrained, which she naturally does with all elan and ease. For a man though its hard to understand this feeling and view it as more an invasion of his room and privacy: which is what RAM showed.
 
 A room with two different view points. Two lives that have to give and take and make the institution of marriage a success.

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Posted: 19 July 2011 at 7:43pm | IP Logged
Well said ClapClap Nice perspective...
 
A room with a view it is... something that spoke volumes about the person each was... yup really liked that line... 'room mein problem ho rahi, ham zindagiyan share karne ja rahe hain'...
 
that's why they say... in marriage who have to make space for someone in your life and in your mind!!

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Posted: 19 July 2011 at 7:46pm | IP Logged
I am loving this drama...what to say...
They make me feel different with little things...<3

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Posted: 19 July 2011 at 9:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by avivakirk

 Well said Maris!!!!!!! Profound statement abt  a room and two lives......
 
Well for Ram, he never shared a room so the adjustment is going to be tough. Priya would not face that great a  problem as she shares the room with the siblings...As years go by we tend to be rigid abt the things in our room ...Ram is no exception...Does he realise pretty soon Priya's stamp would be all over the place? Priya aptly said  that they were bickering abt things when the most important thing was sharing your entire life... Life is not abt material things but living each day to the fullest with the one u love...At the end of the day it's not things but  all about loving, giving  respect, cherishing and weathering the storms together...
Aviva my sentiments exactly @ blue. thats what its all about. But sometimes we forget the most striking aspect of life and give importance to trivialities. The bigger picture is always forgotten at the cost of just the scene before us.

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well said Clap

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very well written.. Thumbs Up
 
the scene was amazing.. it was the most awkward thing for Ram... going into a stranger and tht too a woman's bedroom...ROFL..   its a first of its kind of experience for Ram...ROFL..
 
i luv this simple situations in PriAm's lives..
 
for Ram its something beyond his control.. the situation, the ppl, the result... so much unlike  his by-the-clock and well-kempt lifestyle... his acumen in running his biz renders worthless here.. he doesnt even have the last word any more... ROFL..its something new.. and Priya makes gud pnts in making him understand tht.. he shud b asking her opinion as well from now on.. smart girl!ROFL...  he is completely at loss handling the domestic situations... ROFL  the last word tht he ends up saying now is "sorry" ROFL... .. add to it the odditiy of handling the intrusion into his private and gaurded life..ROFLROFL...Poor bholu golu rolu and polu Ram.. ROFL
 
For Priya.. she knows to control any given situation except Ram..ROFL.. she is a smart teacher by profession and is slowly learning how to handle this quirky pupil..ROFLROFL.. and thts wat makes her smile at cute antics of Ram..ROFL..
 
True, seemingly opposite personalities reflect thr different tastes.. in almost everything.. the room, the color, the lifestyle, the profession...
 
bt beneath all these opposite traits lie something thts very much common..
The lonliness..
The wait and hope for love happening in their lives..
Love for family..
Respect for each other inspite of the obvious differences...
Understanding each other..
 
I think its learning phase for Ram.. now he wud realize wat it takes to be a husband and a father.. i wud love to c him father a daughter.. and learn tht parenting and fathering is beyond jst pampering ur kid..and tht he wud never have his daughter to be chotti..LOL..
 
actually, the look on Priya's face wen Ram said he has alotted "little" space in his cupboard for her.. was hilarious ... it was like...  wat?  R u crazy?..well,  wait Mr. Kapoor till i come and occupy it.. ROFL..
 
I think she was purposefully teasing Ram with study table and dressing table thngs.. she probably overheard neha's pillow thng.. LOL.. I mean who wud take furniture to her sasural.. ROFL.. its jst not practical.. ROFL.. bt to Ram's horror, she may b serious abt the plant thng.ROFL...  It wud b funny to c how he reacts to the plant.. and the sun.. and the sun light.. and Priya's Tea... every morning.. ROFLROFL..  
 
and lastly, yup.. its a custom... Cry.. to meet ther mountain-size expectations and to leave everything and adjust to new surroundings, new ppl, besides sharing.. life, bed, and bathroom... LOL..   it was funny tht both Priya and Ram.. asked each other if they wanted to c thr bathrooms as well...ROFLROFL..  I bet Ram refused imagining at the condition of it after seeing her messy bedroom..ROFLROFL


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