Originally posted by avivakirkMPOV is that sometimes the samjota marriages and sometimes warring couples build lasting relationships than the couples who fell in love and dated for a long time. In this case the warring couple are seeing the rough edges of each other before marriage...Priya seeing Ram's finickyness abt his things before marriage...There are no high expectations...So after marriage they would respect their boundaries and slowly find a comfortable middle level to build on.
Relationships especially love marriages start off showing off the nicer edges first but keep the rougher edges under wraps ...so there's lots of expectations ...when the true colors emerge then, u come crashing on the ground... Needn't be the scenario in every case
Relationships need the foundation of love, respect to stay firm...
completely agree...in an arranged marriage you go into the relationship with no expectations which means you understand each other and see the 'real' side of each other however if it was love before marriage then they would go into the marriage with high expectactions expecting everything to be like that after shaadi as well which most of the time makes the relationship weak