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Posted: 15 July 2011 at 12:56pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Dabulls23

Now how did we get to conclusion of "Abusive Husband"?????
 
That is not the case here in BALH..Actually we have abusive psycho fiance~ and a very good future husband.  Karthik needs to stay away from psychos as he alreadly lost his cewl once.
 
 
Anyways the situation OP described being single mom and raising a child w/o abusive husband is always better.  But Mom has to be strong and capable.

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Posted: 16 July 2011 at 4:28pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Dabulls23

Now how did we get to conclusion of "Abusive Husband"?????
 
That is not the case here in BALH..Actually we have abusive psycho fiance~ and a very good future husband.  Karthik needs to stay away from psychos as he alreadly lost his cewl once.
 
 
Anyways the situation OP described being single mom and raising a child w/o abusive husband is always better.  But Mom has to be strong and capable.

 
yes, its not the case in BALH, but what I meant was Niharikia* did not know this, and nor do other family members, so he could have been an abusive husband as far as they were concerned, and the marriage was called off, but brought back because of her pregnancy, so as far as others are concerned he could've been an abusive person, although viewers know that Nuts was also at fault. I just meant in a general case in the show they didnt really seem to care if he wasnt abusive or was, for them Nuts was pregnant and therefore had to marry Kartik, who her marriage had been broken with due to physical abuse.

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Posted: 16 July 2011 at 11:12pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by changumangu123

Originally posted by deejayaqueel

Good question ClapClap...

My opinion only...
 
I think a single mother is preferable to an abusive husband... (mind you i am not calling KArthik abusive, only asnswering your question with my view at a general level)
 
Why consign yourself to a miserable existence just for the sake of 'log kya kahenge'...
 
Of course, it depends on whether or not you really want to raise a kid...
 
In Nuts' case, i think she is too immature to handle herself let alone a kid... i think abortion is the best bet or someone else raising the kid... i shudder to think the plight of that kid...
 
I think Niharika just wants to marry her off for the sake of her izzat not coz of forcing Ram & Priya... that she can do in other ways too...
 
My POV, no offence meant
 
 
Wow in your POV, the best option is to kill the child  "... i think abortion is the best bet ..." Please think twice what abortion really is before you recommend it to anyone.


Actually abortion in the first couple of weeks is not killing a life because the life form is only a zygote and not an embryo as in it has no heart or any other vital organs, it is just a ball of rapidly dividing cells not different than any other cells in the human body. So really it depends on when the person gets an abortion. If Natasha does get an abortion right after finding out about her pregnancy like she wanted to,  she will not be killing a human child but of course these are just nuances and details that cannot be considered in a tv show lol.

Also, another reason why Niharika wants Natasha  to get married is because she thinks marriage will fix Nats up and put a stop to all her craziness because well frankly Nats is an embarrassment for a highly reputed family like them.

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Posted: 16 July 2011 at 11:20pm | IP Logged
If anyone thinks foetus is not a life than they are in la la land.
 
I am pro choice woman but I think the post ^^^^^ is totally giving wrong info.  I dont intend to debate over abortion or prochoice or prolife.  I just wanted to say life begins at the moment of fertilisation is an entirely logical point to choose as the beginning of human life.
 
I rest my case.
 
Thanks for reading.
 
Natasha can feel free to sleep around than she is old enough to have her baby and raise it.  even if she is psycho.  may be this baby would knock some sense into reality.

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Posted: 16 July 2011 at 11:42pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Dabulls23

If anyone thinks foetus is not a life than they are in la la land.
 
I am pro choice woman but I think the post ^^^^^ is totally giving wrong info.  I dont intend to debate over abortion or prochoice or prolife.  I just wanted to say life begins at the moment of fertilisation is an entirely logical point to choose as the beginning of human life.
 
I rest my case.
 
Thanks for reading.
 
Natasha can feel free to sleep around than she is old enough to have her baby and raise it.  even if she is psycho.  may be this baby would knock some sense into reality.


Like I said at conception, it is not a foetus it is a zygote it has no heart or organs or anything it is just a ball of cells..a blastocyst and at this time many countries,states etc. do not consider it as feticide and the abortion procedure is much different than when a fetus is aborted. An embryo becomes a fetus in the 9th week. Another thing I am not pro abortion or anything I do not defend it either. I am not purposely giving the wrong information to anyone I just like to look at every side of  the argument.  And anyways I was just throwing it out there, putting something like this in a show will give the wrong information and there is no place for it there, I am just looking at it scientifically that's all.

I just want to add that I value your opinion Smile

Another thing, how can we be sure that the child is even Karthik's and how can we even call him abusive when we know that he isn't, he had just lost is cool although he went about it the wrong way but calling him abusive is too strong of a description.


Edited by canuck-umz - 16 July 2011 at 11:50pm

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Posted: 17 July 2011 at 5:15am | IP Logged
Originally posted by canuck-umz

I just want to add that I value your opinion Smile

Another thing, how can we be sure that the child is even Karthik's and how can we even call him abusive when we know that he isn't, he had just lost is cool although he went about it the wrong way but calling him abusive is too strong of a description.
I totally agree with you on this.
 
Whether its Karthik's child or not Natz thinks she is mature enough to have 50+ BFs and sleep around, get prego than she is old enough to take care of the baby.  Abortion should not be an option or excuse for her behavior.
 
I can guarantee this child is not Karhiks.  Karthik is not abusive man.  He did lose his cewl but anyone with right mind still would lose it if they were to deal with psycho like Natasha.  To phir Karthik kiss khet ki mooli hai WinkLOL

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Posted: 17 July 2011 at 5:20am | IP Logged
1000% Abusive Husband is the worst.

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Posted: 17 July 2011 at 7:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by changumangu123

Originally posted by deejayaqueel

Good question ClapClap...

My opinion only...
 
I think a single mother is preferable to an abusive husband... (mind you i am not calling KArthik abusive, only asnswering your question with my view at a general level)
 
Why consign yourself to a miserable existence just for the sake of 'log kya kahenge'...
 
Of course, it depends on whether or not you really want to raise a kid...
 
In Nuts' case, i think she is too immature to handle herself let alone a kid... i think abortion is the best bet or someone else raising the kid... i shudder to think the plight of that kid...
 
I think Niharika just wants to marry her off for the sake of her izzat not coz of forcing Ram & Priya... that she can do in other ways too...
 
My POV, no offence meant
 
 
Wow in your POV, the best option is to kill the child  "... i think abortion is the best bet ..." Please think twice what abortion really is before you recommend it to anyone.

u r right about abortion, and thinking twice etc, but just think of the baby who will most probably be born defective what with a mother who indulges in alcohol and drugs...

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