Posted: 15 July 2011 at 5:02am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Asawari_naksh
I am finding lot of post in this forum pretty one sided. No offence to anyone but they come across as if they are only here to blame and find faults in everything that Akshara does...
I know the image of wedding planner is completely tarnished in YR but whatever they are showing my views are based on that...I think in all this wedding planner scenario Akshara is the only sane voice in the singhania household. I found Akshara's concern over the wedding planner issue the most sensible.First of all who will get a wedding planner 4 days before the wedding that too no-interference from the hirer kind...don't know about the others but I won't. I believe no matter how many big weddings for famous people the planner might have done...but its their responsibility to consult the hirer for each and everything cause every wedding is different from others...choices differs...culture differs etc etc. No person in their right frame of mind will leave everything to wedding planners choice...so Akshara questioning is perfectly fine with me. Singhania's is a joint family...where bedroom is only thing personal otherwise everything is everyones business. So what if it is Akshara's SIL wedding as a bahu of the family she is concerned about the preparations...at the end of it all if something messes up it is the reputation of the family which will be hurt not any individuals.
No doubt they have lot of money to spend but that does not mean they can spend carelessly. They are a joint family so its everyones money not a single family's or persons...so Akshara's concern about the spending on chindi sarees in the name of designer wears is also fine with me.Gifting coloured glass showpieces to Samdhi's on wedding this is what Deora's want...I doubt. Yeah I agree she gets tensed and is not able to let go...but this is her basic nature.
Gayatri ka samajh aata hai...she is not getting this whole wedding planner concept...Nothing has happened according to her wish but still she is so much into competing with Rama bahen ke ignorance is bliss for her. What surprises me more is Naitik's attitude.He was so tensed for Rashmi's marriage preparations that he hired planner and now he is least concerned about what the wedding planners are doing.Leave aside saree matter as he don't know anything about it but he is not finding anything weired in gifting coloured glass showpieces to Deora's. Somebody from the family have to keep an eye on the preparations handled by planners...Naitik and Gayatri are least interested so I dont find anything wrong if Akshara looks into the same. If the marriage preparation does not go smoothly Singhani'a will have to face all the embaressment.
This is my POV some ppl can agree or agree to disagree. No offence to anyone so plzzz no bashing.
agreed..Asawari, i dun think Akshara is wrong here in anyway..her concern over wp is fine, and she has all rights to interfere..the wp will mess up everything, guaranteed !
we engage diff. people for our work but till the time we ourselves supervise, we will never get the desired results...i believe "if you cannot inspect then do not expect" ! it's moronic to engage a wp at this stage, and then give her 1 crore advance is sheer bewakoofi
at this stage, akshara is the only sane person left in SS, everyone else is acting weird...but if we look at it from naitik's pov, he is spending 1+crore on this stupid planner and after that, if he and akshara have to take tension over every thing that ms chandni is doing then the whole purpose of engaging her is nullified..and then, ma-beta specifically asked ms chandni to do everything acc. to ladke wale taste and she's just doing that..we all know designer stuff mostly doesn't look out of this world, only the price tag is ! i'm not sure what madam chandni is giving is designer or not
we cannot blame any of the characters , it's the CV's who have no idea what they're doing...there aren't any such planners who do everything acc. to THEIR taste and not the ppl. who hire them...therez zero coordination b/w ladke wale and ladki wale , both are doing the ceremonies their own way and then get shocked looking at the others preparations...why?? there r only 2 days left for the wedding, yet there aren't any relatives , not even on mehandi
sangeet par , the function which is supposedly hosted by singhania's and Deora's together , 5 members of the family r going to the hotel like guests
they aren't wearing the designer saarees either
bought by madam chandni...Deora's are sending the MENU a day before the function or may be the same day itself
does this ever happen that the person who booked the hotel "orders" his choice of dishes , woh bhi when they're not in the banquet menu
woh bhi, Vishambhar didnt care to communicate the same to their daughter or her sasural ppl...or Vish thinks daddaji will be okay with it ?