Originally posted by Asawari_naksh
I am finding lot of post in this forum pretty one sided. No offence to anyone but they come across as if they are only here to blame and find faults in everything that Akshara does...
I know the image of wedding planner is completely tarnished in YR but whatever they are showing my views are based on that...I think in all this wedding planner scenario Akshara is the only sane voice in the singhania household. I found Akshara's concern over the wedding planner issue the most sensible.First of all who will get a wedding planner 4 days before the wedding that too no-interference from the hirer kind...don't know about the others but I won't. I believe no matter how many big weddings for famous people the planner might have done...but its their responsibility to consult the hirer for each and everything cause every wedding is different from others...choices differs...culture differs etc etc. No person in their right frame of mind will leave everything to wedding planners choice...so Akshara questioning is perfectly fine with me. Singhania's is a joint family...where bedroom is only thing personal otherwise everything is everyones business. So what if it is Akshara's SIL wedding as a bahu of the family she is concerned about the preparations...at the end of it all if something messes up it is the reputation of the family which will be hurt not any individuals.
No doubt they have lot of money to spend but that does not mean they can spend carelessly. They are a joint family so its everyones money not a single family's or persons...so Akshara's concern about the spending on chindi sarees in the name of designer wears is also fine with me.Gifting coloured glass showpieces to Samdhi's on wedding this is what Deora's want...I doubt. Yeah I agree she gets tensed and is not able to let go...but this is her basic nature.
Gayatri ka samajh aata hai...she is not getting this whole wedding planner concept...Nothing has happened according to her wish but still she is so much into competing with Rama bahen ke ignorance is bliss for her. What surprises me more is Naitik's attitude.He was so tensed for Rashmi's marriage preparations that he hired planner and now he is least concerned about what the wedding planners are doing.Leave aside saree matter as he don't know anything about it but he is not finding anything weired in gifting coloured glass showpieces to Deora's. Somebody from the family have to keep an eye on the preparations handled by planners...Naitik and Gayatri are least interested so I dont find anything wrong if Akshara looks into the same. If the marriage preparation does not go smoothly Singhani'a will have to face all the embaressment.
This is my POV some ppl can agree or agree to disagree. No offence to anyone so plzzz no bashing.
Nice post Asawari
I agree with u akshara is worried about ss repution only
that she become tension to small small thing that her nature
and naitik aur gay3
ka mind kaha chalay gaya yaar
kal kay eposide may dj telling write they experiend in mariages na why wedding planner for reshmi marriage
ya shadi kab katham hogi yaar aba chori be haogayhe aur naitik ko leg be injured
hogaya abhi kya bahki hai dekay kya liya
Edited by fazeel - 15 July 2011 at 4:21am