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My first kiss with my bestfirend?

ashley25 Newbie

Joined: 11 July 2011
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Posted: 11 July 2011 at 11:31am | IP Logged
hi i need your help,
My bestfriend and I been friends for 4 years now. we both first met when i was a freshman and he was a senoir. Me and him are longdistant bestfirends, because over the years he moved alot. We always see each other year after year. i know i have a huge crush on him, but i don't know if he feels the same way. Now im a senior that graduated, and heading off to college in august. 
This weekend he finally tells me, and i qoute, "when u were here i wanted to see if you wanted to be together and i always hesitated to wanna kiss you." Last time i've seen him was last summer. He also told me, he would of ask me out now but he is in a relationship now. But he asked me, if we meet again do u wanna kiss? 
The one year is coming again and he is coming in august, he is moving back. The week before i leave to college. should i kiss him? my bestfriend? This would be my first kiss.
I know our firendship won't be the same after that kiss.
but i don't know what to do, should we go on one date night, before i go. Im leaving on august 20, 2011 and we will only see each other one day.
Im so confused  with my feelings for my bestfirend.
please i need your advice on this, anyone.

Edited by ashley25 - 11 July 2011 at 11:37am

Steadam2011 Newbie

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Posted: 29 July 2011 at 2:26am | IP Logged
hands and kissing. I liked it the first few days but then I ...will leave and i dont want her to be my girlfriend nor a friends with benefits becasue that will.

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Edited by Steadam2011 - 27 August 2011 at 3:03am
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Posted: 30 July 2011 at 2:54pm | IP Logged
Honestly the choice is all up to you but my question is why would you kiss him knowing that he's in a relationship and he has the audacity to ask you such a question? You know? How do you know that he will ever be truthful to you? If he really wants to be with you / likes you then why is he with the other girl? Plus, it's utterly ridiculous that he's talking to you like this despite having a girlfriend. Also the way he wrote he doesn't mention that he likes you, he only says he wanted to "kiss you!" Wanting to kiss someone and liking someone is two different stories. You can honestly go up to anyone and kiss them but you can't go up to just anyone and like them. Kissing is just of part of lust and liking is just whole new and different thing.  At the end of the day it is your choice because you do know your friend a lot better than any of us. So good luck and I hope things go in the best way possible for you. Smile


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Posted: 31 July 2011 at 6:37pm | IP Logged
no don't kiss him i didnt read ur entire post sorry  but from the couple lines that i read i  would say dont kisss him he is ur friend and by kissing him ur jeopardising ur relationship with him

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manpreet887 Groupbie

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Posted: 02 August 2011 at 7:09pm | IP Logged
Well, I would say that don't kiss him. It's really stupid of him to say this to you WHEN he has a gf. If he couldn't say it then, why is he saying it now? Why would you even wanna kiss that guy who is in a relationship?
Don't kiss this guy, wait for the right guy, and hopefully you'll have an amazing first kiss with an amazing guy. I think this guy just wants to have "fun" on the side, while still being in a relationship. Don't allow that, know your worth.
How would YOU feel if you had a bf, and he goes n tells his bestfriend she can kiss him? would you like that? I don't think so. Tell him that you don't want to kiss him because he is not your bf and he is in a relationship. Tell him that your first kiss is being saved for the man of your dreams!
Don't be foolish and kiss this guy who just wants fun on the side, you are making yourself look bad...

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uroojb Newbie

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Posted: 04 September 2011 at 4:57am | IP Logged
why would you kiss him when hez already in a relationship?
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