Posted: 04 July 2011 at 11:49pm | IP Logged
k.. yesterdays epi reminded me of this "interesting" old film title.. "Mera Pati Sirf Mera Hai" but the funny question here is "kiska pati sirf kiska hai?"
... or shud i give it another title.. "uska pati sirf mera hai"
..the situation is so hilarious.. tht i cant stop lofing... both A and G r fighting for their rights over their childhood pati "dev"..
... the "love" thing in their r'ship with J is taken over by "rights"..
.. Tho A claims its love tht is still making her think abt J.. in reality its her duties as "beendni" and the place tht constantly reminds her of J and sting of seeing her man with another women is making her still think of J.. if the situation hadnt been this, by this time she really wud have moved on with her life and did something worthwhile thn wandering around the house aimlessly, bumping into her husband, brawling with her souten!
Interesting.. i m confused with CVs track actually.. cant see wat they wanna prove with all these.. instead of getting straight into the point they r busy beating around the bush.. i guess they have become more "lalchi" wanna rake in some easy TRPs.. now tht they have the best formula in hands.. pati patni or "woh"
k tht last part was tribute to "makhan kaka"
Hail Makhan kaka!... its kinda funny to c DS on a backseat..
... bt she is very cute with her expressions of "had it all"
on a serious note, I recently had encounter with a very close relative of mine suffering from "i still love my husband" syndrome!
.. tell u her husband is the worst of kind at least by an educated-urban-living-husband standards.. still she tended to justify her husbands dishonoring behaviour.. **shaking head** and she is very well educated thn Anandi.. and even can manage to live independentally financially.. still inspite of every thing she is unable to free herself from these emotional shackles.. giving enuf chances to her husband everytime thinking he wud come around.. surrendering to his emotional blackmails.. and sometimes to threatening words and sometimes fear of parting from her son
.. its really hard to believe wat she still believes in..
.. it seems she mite have found her foot this time.. bt i m really not sure.. how long wud it last b4 she again goes back to him..
.. my elders say.. "ghar mat todo" reconcile if its possible as ther is this emotional/relations factor too.. in our society, its not jst husband and wife.. thr r lot more r;ships attached to this H-W relation... moreover his family members too want the same.. bt wat abt the betrayal.. wat abt the loss of trust.. wat abt her stand... her self-respect.. i dunno wat happens of Anandi in BV.. v all so much want her to be free of J.. bt its really hard to break free.. and Anandi is lot more conservative.. thn this lady who i am talking abt.. she is a lady who can tackle the whole world easily and come out truimphant from any tough situation.. bt when it comes to her life.. her husband... she cant sort it out!.. its completely beyond logic.. and I can understand A's stance here and when she says she still loves J.. the matters of heart are all really very complicating.. and many a gruesome murders have happened over tiff of love.. and over this pati patni or voh scenario..!
or is forgiveness the best thing to do? Shud Anandi forgive Jagya if he comes back and really really repents? generally forgiveness is considered as submission or a defensive stance.. especially in case of women and is dispproved by most feminists.. bt as an individual is it a best stance?.. Can it b called a greatest virtue?.. I dont know.. and i m confused.. if i think as an individual, i think i wud forgive.. bt if i think as a wife or as a daughter in law, or a mother, i wont.. and the problem is society and husband see us more as a wife or as a daughter in law than as individual..
But the lesson i learnt from all of this is.. "do the right thing" remain unselfish, think morally.. free from shackles of r'ships.. and do wat is right.. however difficult or impossible it seems.. coz at the end of the day its the only thing thts gonna save u from paying a hard price!
Here G and J acted selfish and did all the wrong things..
DS already payed the price.. and has learnt to mend her ways.. and A is doing the right thng. lets c.. jst for how long!
Edited by achiever - 04 July 2011 at 11:51pm