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Marriage is basically doing things legally.
I agree that it is the spirit that counts, but still better to have it all formalised. The poor kid too does not want to feel odd in school.
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Originally posted by zorrro

 what do you suggest in that case? should marriage be abolished ? Promote people to simply live together and then separate at the drop of a hat? Or perhaps remain single Ermm
 
None of that...but don't give marriage any more importance than it deserves...people should get married because they WANT to and not because they HAVE to..
 

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^^ Angie...All that u have said is true because marriage is an overrated /man made institution and it has been drilled in our mind...to give respect and acceptance to a couple who is married and to look down on the one that is not...a committed couple can give the same sense of security, stability and love to a child that a married couple would...if there is no committment..a marriage would not hold the couple together...the important part of being together is committment and not a legal contract like marriage...u can always get out of a contract...pay the penalty and be out...
 
Man created this instituation cos love is insecure...Marriage is a security...the registry office, the police, the court are behind it..the state, the society, the religion -- they are all behind it...cos people believe marriage is more permanent than love...!Smile
Ever heard of something called 'Divorce'??--divorce, from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals through his wallet.LOL
 
 
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Originally posted by blue-ice

Originally posted by zorrro

 what do you suggest in that case? should marriage be abolished ? Promote people to simply live together and then separate at the drop of a hat? Or perhaps remain single Ermm
 
None of that...but don't give marriage any more importance than it deserves...people should get married because they WANT to and not because they HAVE to..
 
couldnt agree more myself. Unfortunately not everyone has the freedom to do even that!
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Originally posted by blue-ice

^^ Angie...All that u have said is true because marriage is an overrated /man made institution and it has been drilled in our mind...to give respect and acceptance to a couple who is married and to look down on the one that is not...a committed couple can give the same sense of security, stability and love to a child that a married couple would...if there is no committment..a marriage would not hold the couple together...the important part of being together is committment and not a legal contract like marriage...u can always get out of a contract...pay the penalty and be out...
 
Man created this instituation cos love is insecure...Marriage is a security...the registry office, the police, the court are behind it..the state, the society, the religion -- they are all behind it...cos people believe marriage is more permanent than love...!Smile
Agreed .  Smile But here people seem to be  against that very idea of security being provided by a marriage . It is perhaps felt that a live in relationship is more convenient as it is easier to get out of it- exactly the reason why it would be more unstableConfused
 
Cos relationships are just rules of the game...! Those who dont take life too seriously...they can enjoy the God of small things...Smile
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Originally posted by blue-ice

^^ Angie...All that u have said is true because marriage is an overrated /man made institution and it has been drilled in our mind...to give respect and acceptance to a couple who is married and to look down on the one that is not...a committed couple can give the same sense of security, stability and love to a child that a married couple would...if there is no committment..a marriage would not hold the couple together...the important part of being together is committment and not a legal contract like marriage...u can always get out of a contract...pay the penalty and be out...
There is no need to look down on anyone blue ice! As I said each to his own. we all seem to be in agreement regarding the need for commitment in making any relationship work. Formalising things has its advantages so my question was what could be the reason for staying off marriage when one has already decided to raise kids with someone. I mean does it really serve any purpose at that stage by not giving the relationship a legal approval?The only possible reason that comes to my mind is to avoid the hassles of a divorce if it is required some day. To me that seems to  quite a pessimistic approach to take.  

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