Selfish me

Everyone wants anandi to leave the haveli and away from the mess. I Want the same as well. 

oh suchii😆😆

Hi suchi I respect your views and also agree that J has to pay for what he has done to A. I did not have any problem with her deciding to stay back in the haveli and complete her studies or else move out to finish her education until today. Today DS has accepted JG relationship with what ever ulterior motive. Under such circumstances why should A be in the house. She need not prove anything to J. He is not worth it. For that matter she need not prove anything to anybody. People who love her know her real worth and what she is capable of. Why make her stay back and she undergo all the stress of seeing J & G together? I do not know how the rest of the family is going to treat G after knowing DS master plan, but I personally feel why make A a pawn in this whole episode? She is wasting her time. Medical entrance is not a joke and for a person who is not getting any spl tutoring things are not going to be easy either. The more she stays back in the haveli things are going to be more difficult for her, she will have to work in the house, and amidst the tamasha going on how is she going to study. Unless she leaves the place and goes to a different setting like a college or a city she is not going to broaden her thinking. Her leaving the haveli is only going to give her a fair chance to liberate herself and broaden her thinking. How strong J and G relationship is going to be will be known in the episodes to come. If their relationship is all that weak +/- A it will not work. That's enough for J to realize his mistakes. In the meanwhile if A finishes her studies and settles in a good career it will be a tighter slap on J face for all his nasty words against her. G has put her hands on burning coal and whatever the outcome of hers or the family's behavior towards her will be what she will have to pay for her actions and bad decisions. If A continues to stay in the haveli she will continue to be treated as J wife which is totally unfair for her and does she have to have that fate for the rest of her life? Let her make her life and then if she finds some one worthy of her let her get married to someone else and have her own life. J is too selfish, cunning and manipulative for her and she need not be used to make J realize his follies.

I somehow dont want Anandi to stay and watch Jag-Gauri in the haveli. She seems to have accepted the fact that Jag is no longer her husband. That just shows her strength of character to be able to put the past behind her and atleast act as if nothing is impacting her anymore. But I think it is just a pretense from her end. It is not that easy to forget somebody whom you loved and accepted as your hubby all your life and having to watch him live with his new wife in the same house has to be a lot painful. I dont think she deserves to go through that. And eventhough the family is hurt by Jagat's actions sooner or later the family has to forgive him. Under the circumstance the best thing Anandi could/should do is get out of there, be independant and make her own life. I hope she is only staying there till DS recovers. If this was real life then 100% Anandi should get out of there cos the jagat ship has sailed. But this is a show and I dont know where they are taking this - looks like they are going in the direction of breaking Jag-Gauri up and maybe bringing Jag back to Anandi. I DO NOT want Anandi to accept Jagat, I am with everyone who feels like a new hot hunk for Anandi and to hell with Jagat.

I think it would be better if Anandi stays in the house, otherwise it will seem like Jagiya and Gauri have driven her away from the house.  I am sure she can study where she is without having to leave the haveli etc.  I mean the CV's can make anything become true at the end of the day.  They can very well show that Anandi is able to compete her medical exams by studying in the home only😆😆

But if they want the logical route, then if you want Anandi to carry on with her studies, i guess at some oint she will have to leave the haveli and follow her dreans and carry on with her studies.  Otheriwse if you want her to stay in the house for the time being, then that would mean that her studies would have to take the back seat for a little while.

I understand what you all mean and i want that too. Its just that I do not want Jagya and Gauri to get away with what they done. Especially Jagya. 

I honestly feel that the character of "anandi"  has moved on more than anandi fans ... we are only trying to drag her back and tie her to her past ..i am really liking the way Cvs have protrayed her... she did all she cld for the relationship ( waiting for 5 yrs!! ) and even after that if jagya choose gauri over her .. then i think its best she moves on with her life.. agreed she has suffered and the singh family owes her a lot... but whats the point of her trying to stay back and trying to teach "jagya-gauri" a lesson...what new will they learn.. its a lost cause... i hope Cvs dnt plan to being JaAn back.. that wld be gross... its better if they left their relationship as a friends...   Edited by pallai - 12 years ago

Edited by hooked - 12 years ago