Originally posted by Suchi-NivReniacTHANK YOU VERY MUCHHH!!!
mypoints EXACTLYYY
This is the reason why i am sooo UPSET at everyone and anyone who disses Anandi and call her dumb and all those rude names.
because they are being cruel to the VICTIM not to the one who is the criminal.
And yes Anandi is LUCKY to got a such a good family and a good example they are. As I mentioned that it is a Male Chauvinistic society so , they will tend to blame the female as many people do.
And the interview of Jagya and Gauri , is exactly the proof of what people like Jagya do. Bring in the legality. No matter how many times the reporter said, so don't you think you have cheated on Anandi, they bring in the child issue and its legality.
Bal Vivah, don't go together and all the other nonsense. Which is fine in technical terms but what abotu the girls who go through it!!????
what about them
yes exactly as many dear people who DISS Anandi might say,
Let them go to hell or commit suicide.
Where as Jagya can live off with Gauri happily and Anandi can become successful !????
IS that a solution? NO.
Anandi is going to be succesful becuase its a story and not a reality.
She is one girl ( a character-not real-) who got is off lucky, even though she suffered A LOT!! She got to study!
Thank GOD for that.
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But the above article shouts out the point I am screaming about every time I post... Its not about the legality of the issue, its the very nature of the issue, that is the inhuman treatment of the girls who go through this.
Men Don't CARE , they will just move on and have a good life where as the girls suffer.
What did Jagya not get,
He got a great family
money
career and now a
great career oriented girl whom he chose after he DUMPED off Anandi like a doormat.
I am sorry Anand is NOT a doormat rather she is voice of all those poor girls who are going through this EVERY single day and instead of appreciating this fact that she is standing up and fighting, and instead of supporting her, the Jagya and Gauri marriage is supported.
Its an Insult to people like Anandi and people like Gauri.
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Classic example , even today Jagya tried to do the guilt trip on gauri as well.. "well you hid from me too" !? trying to justify what he did.
And thats what he is, a person who loves himself and no one else.
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But honestly my heart cries out for such Poorrr girls
:"( tears
I just hope this criminality stops and people change and for the better.
Find the solution for the issue not an easy escape root for perverts> ! who care about their lusts and ambitions.
Suchi, I think the problem here is not that people call Anandi names but the fact that most feel that the CV's have turned her character from when she was young, bright, eager to learn and certainly more intuitive than anyone else in this serial to a girl who has chosen to give up her basis characteristics and
her dreams. This has made a lot of viewers unhappy and angry for Anandi's sake not for any other reason..
Yes,... she is a victim as are all child brides, Gauri included. Through no fault of their own...most go through various kinds of trauma which is a result of this practice. This serial should have actually been aimed more for the parents than anyone else.
I think what the creatives are probably trying to show... and I agree these things happen in fiction (but we must remember that the only way to reach out to people through the TV medium is through fictionalized serials) is that Gauri despite her bad experience made something out of herself whereas Anandi did not...it is only a fictional comparison but one that might start some relevant viewers thinking...Don't you think??
As far as Jagya is concerned...I do not judge his reaction but the means he has used for his actions...and it has been attempted to show that even among the wealthy (as in the case of Jagya's family) there are those who realize right from wrong even if it is too late ...they try and correct it...Jagya as of now has been disinherited!!!
I do not believe all boys in such situations are guilty but I do believe that some semblance of balance should be brought in where even in such serials...both girls handle matters which gives a clear message ...and those who have wronged show remorse.
Life has to go on in fiction and in reality...so I hope the CV's have enough sensitivity to handle what
they have chosen to portray in each character in a manner that is understood by most if not all.
groucho
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...(though i still not able to relate to it...coz never saw this type of person in my life!!)
