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Posted: 02 June 2011 at 4:32am | IP Logged
it's the menatality of almost typical south asian men Dead khud chahe 40s main ho, larki chaiye 16 yrz old Stern Smile

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Posted: 02 June 2011 at 1:01pm | IP Logged
Umm...sorry, but where exactly were you when you were in India???
Most of the people I know, and yes, a lot of guys are included as well, are down to earth ones who have no issues as such regarding age, caste, religion and such. Yes, there are men out there who look for trophy wives, nut they happen to exist in each and every country and you cannot generalize that to India. Yes, we have those nosy MIL's and others trying to hook you up simply because, for better or worse, parents and elders in this country have not learnt to 'let go' as they have in other cultures...

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My mum was complaining about this the other day lol. My female cousin in India is really thin and any thinner she would be anorexic, the silly idiot hardly eats cause shes worried about getting fat cause no guy will go for her when it comes to marriage its so sad. Here in the UK I been rejected sometimes because of a slight disfigurement which iv had since birth cause they are looking for a perfect woman that doesn't exist. Some people just live in dream land or are just plain vain themselves. Vain asian men are the worse they know they are handsome and put others down its not a good thing in finding a future partner as that vain attitude leads to them being alone cause no one would put up with it.

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Posted: 02 June 2011 at 2:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by angelic8219

My mum was complaining about this the other day lol. My female cousin in India is really thin and any thinner she would be anorexic, the silly idiot hardly eats cause shes worried about getting fat cause no guy will go for her when it comes to marriage its so sad. Here in the UK I been rejected sometimes because of a slight disfigurement which iv had since birth cause they are looking for a perfect woman that doesn't exist. Some people just live in dream land or are just plain vain themselves. Vain asian men are the worse they know they are handsome and put others down its not a good thing in finding a future partner as that vain attitude leads to them being alone cause no one would put up with it.

That's really sad yaar.. ): You know what? TV is ruining their minds, they believe in everything they see on TV, but reality is somewhat different than what is shown on TV. Meaning, if a guy on TV thinks that have a beautiful and young girl in their lives would make everything better then they are mistaking. What they don't know is that these beautiful girls can be evils. What I believe is that people these days are very selfish and only care about themselves and not others. They just want everything perfect. I feel pity for those.  

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Posted: 02 June 2011 at 7:23pm | IP Logged
This does exist everywhere
 
However I find this unreal expectation of a woman exists very strongly in India
 
The girl has to be fair - ok we are all indian so this doesnt make sense..we were made to have lightly tanned skin
 
The girl has to be slim - indian women are curvy and have an hour glass figure..size 0 or 3 is really unrealistic and unflattering for most indian women (some can pull it off..but for how long?)
 
The girl has to be well mannered ie if your saas yells at you..you smile politely
 
 
The girl should be a homemaker - some women choose this...and thats fine..because its their choice...however there are women that want to work and go back to school but their inlaws dont support this..in major cities like Delhi or Bombay this may be more accepted but I find it rare..or its portrayed as rare by Indian media
 
If you are an indian overweight girl and especially close to or in your 30's (I dont mean 10-20 lbs overweight here) then I wish you the best of luck..cause although there is nothing wrong with you...the mother in laws of india and the mamma's boys will find something wrong with you..unless you are from Canada/US/Abroad...then you are their golden ticket.
 
I live in Canada and find guys here pretty cocky and all but they are not so obsessed with age..cause here its expected the woman work after marriage so a woman spending time on her career is okay...she jus has to look 25 even though she is 35 LOL or be absolutely glamourous
 
As for what part of India...I went to Punjab area...but I have come across south indian, north indian, Tamil etc etc and they all express similar thoughts
 
Even people on this forum have expressed similar thoughts
 
 

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Posted: 02 June 2011 at 7:26pm | IP Logged
On a side note
 
why is this show on so late...I gotta get up for work at 630AM...and im a zombie by the end of the day
 
why doesnt anyone have pets in these shows..i love dogs
 
 

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Posted: 02 June 2011 at 10:36pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by silvermoonlight

On a side note
 
why is this show on so late...I gotta get up for work at 630AM...and im a zombie by the end of the day
 
why doesnt anyone have pets in these shows..i love dogs
 
 
Maybe dogs doesn't fit the criteria of India drama...lol. Where are u in canada cuz here in Vancouver it BALH comes around 7:30

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Posted: 03 June 2011 at 6:58pm | IP Logged
Im from around Toronto
 
its on at 10:30
 
I think cuddly RK needs a cuddly pet ... a cute doggie...I can totally see RK doing that..he has the cushioning for thatLOL

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